Hi guys!
I'm woundering what you're suposed to reply to a shit test like: "Are you flirting with me?"
Do you have any good ways to hadle a question like this?
Also, please post other questions like this one that might put you against the wall.
Thanks

"No, but it's OBVIOUS that you're flirting with ME."

or

"If I was flirting with you then that would mean I have would have to be interested in you."



none of them field tested, so use with caution

Erison,

Use your imagination . . . what makes you think that dissing a girl like that will actually HELP you get into her pants? Try to avoid whammy conversation killers.

How about:

"Yes, but I'll have you know that I only flirt with cute girls."

"Cool . . I was wondering how long it would take for you to figure it out."

Thinking about it, I often aplomb girls past the point of "negative reactions." Sometimes, girls will ask you questions like these, fully knowing that they're going to be negative to your reply. It's just an awful habit of some chicks. When I sense this, I sometimes run a little stage act and just keep going with it to get beyond reactionary negative shit to their own "set-up" questions.

Might go something like:

Me: What? Me? Flirt? No, no . . . no . . .
Her: Blah, bl....

Me: Well, you've got a tight bod and a gorgeous face but I would still never flirt with a stranger no way . . .
Her: Bl...

Me: Sure, your lips are hot and I bet you're a great kisser . . . and I bet we'd make a sexy couple but I'm really conservative. I mean come on, do you flirt with strangers?
Her: Blah, bl...

Me: Maybe on our 2nd date . . .maybe then, I'd flirt with you a bit. You know . . . cause I'm a conservative guy and all . . . Maybe on our 3rd date we can fool around.
Her: Yeah, right . . .blah, bl

Me: What? You just go right to it on the first date? Wow, you sound way to fast for me. I mean, I think you're hot and I'd love to kiss you but I've got self control. . . Well, maybe just a peck on the cheek. . . (Lunge real quick and give her a peck on the cheek)

As you said. Sometimes gils just want you to reply in a cocky way just so that they can call you an idiot and diss you

I do like Erison approach here.... admiting you are flirting is just lame.

Its obvious that you are flirting with the girl. Girls aren't stupid. However, most guys who are interested in the girl will deny it because they don't want to fuck it up. Truth is by pretending you aren't, you are messing up your chances. She knows this.

I think it shows a lot of confidence if you just admit it.

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I'm in agreement with Killians here. Just admit to it... there is nothing to be ashamed of and there is no reason to play it off. If you feel like you MUST have a comeback, keep it simple:

Girl: Are you flirting with me?
Vegas: Oh, is that what they call it these days? (Add in cheeky smirk )

She'll just smile back and you carry on with what you were saying. I guess it's a playful way of saying "thank you for pointing out the obvious".

I guess you'd rather be a 'cool' virgin...

You know what's even better than fessing up to 'flirting' is out right telling her that you're flirting before she even specifically asks.

I've had a few times when girls eye ball me walk all the way around the bar and just go, 'You didn't walk all the way over here just to tell us that,' upon opening them. I just tell them, 'Of course not... I came here to flirt with you cute ladies...'

1. 'flirt' is a language chicks love. I've never seen a girl frown at 'flirt'. Whereas 'pick up'... They at least have to pretend to hate the term 'pick up'...

2. Most of the time, the girl who will ask you this is the mother hen of the group. So even though I address the whole group, I'm staring right into the mother hen's eyes when I tell them that I'm flirting. (Once she smiles and laughs, you're all set)

3. Above all... Flirting... And then telling them that you're not.... or going with a pick up version of the 10 year old's playground insult, 'I know you are but what am I ...' is a nice way to tell everybody that you just walked into the bar using your brother's ID.

It depends on the situation.

If I AM flirting and she is enjoying it, but wants to start a little friendly banter by asking me the question, then my response would be 'hell yeah I'm flirting'.

But, if I'm NOT trying to game her and she wants to act like a snotty b*tch in a group situation or by herself, my response is 'you wish sweetheart, don't be so full of yourself'.

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