Hey IM having a bit of trouble getting started. Ive read the mystery method teh game a book on body language an dive seen most of Tyler's he blueprint revealed. i intend on also reading teh rules of the game. Now i dotn have too much of a problem going beig social because I am a naturally social person (though ofcourse theres always room for improvment), bt when i go up to girls I'm findign them beign sort of unresponsive. Sinc eseeing most of the bleprint ive been tring to work on inner game and just having a good time bt im starting to realize without ta doubt that that alone simply cant do it all (atleast in th begining). So I asking the more advanced guys what thy think i should do. Should i reeadteh mystery method more carefully and try t implement it exactly (rather than kin dof ty and take general concept which is what im doing now) or shoul I mov eon to rules of teh game and read that really carefully. i understand ta the best way is to just getout there but without the tools it may jut sbe moot. Went out last night and it was a friends Bdayparty and many girls had there own social circle. I walked in introduced myselftoa few poepel made a joke how its hard to remember names and asked for names form everyone (girls and guys) and found the girls to be unresponsive to that. Then when asking questions making convo i also found the girls were also relatively unresponsive. Infact the only time i really got a respose outta any girl is when i was just like hey you pick a movie im gonna watch and drink tooand she and her friends were like ok. now mind you these girls were reallybitches which i learned later in teh night but still . Its liek i understand what i did wrog on a general level as in as tyler would say i felt as if i wasn coming in from a positon of abundace with women but now i wonder how do you do that. How do i get in the mind state of abundance to pretend liek i dont care. the funny thing is I actually dont care very much before or after ( cuz as i said bedding tons of women isnt what I care about its being that social guy and understanding how to work a room of women) but still i fealt like my bod language and tone expressed that i did. So my two biggest questions to any PUA thats willing to help are
1. Should I be goign out with canned material such as openers gambits and threads and if so where do i find them or info on the the best way to make them( ( id liek to use only my own or atleats somwhat uniquie( not printed in a best selling book) material)
2. How do you get into the mindstate of abundanc ewhere you dont show interest at all in body language or anything ( I tend to do it without realizing) cuz I can have all the lines in the world but if my body language and tonality dont match it ont work

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A woman's whole life is a history of the affections. ~Washington Irving

I found i learn more through audio rather than written material, manly because you get an idea for how the material should be delivered, which is half the battle. I'd recommend listening to the mystery Method Interviews, 20 volumes, 60 minutes each, all the most successful PUAs in the US and England, topics range from opening to getting her kit off and everything in between. Really good stuff and recommend it!! Its up to you how you get your mitts on it.

Aaaargh, that was majorly annoying to read. So I didnt...


Everybody will make mistakes in the beginning, it doesnt matter. Just use whatever you need to start and accept the first time as a learning phase. Fix all kinks later.