ok so I relatively new to pua and need some advice..

On 2 seperate occastions last night, within a few minutes of opening the HB asked me to go to the dancefloor / follow them.

Should I follow losing the dominate frame / pursuade her to stay or just let her go?



Woman 1
HB7 approaches me and asks me to save her from this guy...
She grabs me by the shirt and tries to bring me toward the dance floor. ( I was opening her friend at the time who wasn't being responsive )

Woman 2
A HB8.5 and HB6 are walking past as I'm chatting to a friend.

Me to HB8.5: "Hey..... your cute, gimme a hug."

HB8.5: laughs and obliges, giving hug.. After a quick introduction she calls her friend back ( friend was making her way to dance floor.)
and introduces me to her also. She then says "we going to the dance floor, come with us" and off they go.

I guess it's ok to follow but I'd prefer if they were following me rater than vice versa.

Any advice here? Any would be appreciated.

I think it would be okay if you make it contingent on her doing something for you first. "Sure I'll follow you, but first you have to...."

1. Buy me a drink
2. Give me a kiss (depending on how much rapport you've built)
3. Answer a question

It's okay to jump through their hoops so long as you are making them jump through your hoops first.

~Antithesis

I think Antithesis is right.

I think, and this may be wrong, but if she won't comply to your hoop I would be tempted to go with her still. At this point it would not be necessarly to win her more then building social proof. If you are seen dancing with a 8.5 it can only be good for your social value. Make sure you break the rapport first after that.

Basically do what you feel like. Either case it's hazy at best. But remember, every action doesn't have to be a DHV.

If you want to dance follow them, then DHV on the dance floor. If not say you want to chat to some more folk first & you might give them a dance later if they're lucky

Just keep it chill & you can't go wrong.

In terms of technical step by step game though, the second jumped through your hoop for the hug, so rewarding her with a dance is certainly not out of the question.

Also she was so into you

Take it easy,

Wolfus.