hey there guys, i know everyone has had problems along the way, but i got a lingering one, that im sure it has a way to work with....
anyways, my problem is that i've got a kinda voice issue. not so much of a mental or nervous thing (even though that also doesnt help) but an actual kinda defect i guess. my voice can be fine most of the time but can often get gravely and very difficult to project my voice... thus, making it difficult to open as well as maintain high value attention. this is especially tough in clubs and loud scenes, obviously....
anyways, women eventually always bring it up or ask if i have a cold or something... hoping you guys might have some ideas of how i can work it, or even turn it in my favor.... thanks in advance guys, ya'll rule...

I'm not sure what you mean. Like, your voice goes hoarse or goes quiet or squeaks? There is a rebuttal for each depending on the situation.

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doesnt squeek or anything specific i dont think, even though it can break every so often... usually just goes real gravely (like a sore throat) and because of that gets very hard to understand and use in loud volume. sometime i can compensate for it, by kinda switching my voice into a wierd different gear, but i think that even sounds unnatural and eventually wrecks my voice thereafter... its hard to discribe but i hope that helps....

(btw the technical issue, at least from any info ive gotten, is that one of my vocal folds doesnt vibrate and close as well as it should, just in case anyone is familar with that)

I would just say "I have a sore throat".

Or you could say "Some girl invited me to a club last night and I barely have a voice now".

Or you could insult her and say "What are you, deaf?"

Of course, the best of these responses probably being the second.

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u can use that shit to ur advantage. ...i wish i had a fukd up voice. try to get the girls to like it one way or another. a friend of mine (who has no idea of the pua world) has sum jakd up teeth but hes always smiling and kind of charming and he actualy got complimented (by a prety good looking girl) that he had nice teeth. he said what why and she said "i dont no ur just always smiling and it seems like u dont realy care". now that's proof. use that shit to ur advantage. remember, if u dont care..they dont either.

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On voice,practice speaking from the diaphragm(Chest area).

The vocal chords are stressed less,and you're voice comes out more natural and masculine(women love it).You know you're talking from the chest when you feel a vibration.

Try it out.If that dont work:

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haha.. thx guys great advice
i like the "are you deaf" one but it might come off too harse...
ive used the "crazy last night" one, good story lead in but lacks the witt

havent tried the riccola though haha

rock on guys!

Nah, don't worry about the harshness. It is a DHV and a DLV for her. Work it.

I still like the crazy night one. Come up with some crazy DHV story full of cocky-funny. Girls will love it.

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