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Well... why would you WANT to (reason wise)? You said that maybe the person isn't incredibly social, but why not be? Sure, being alone is fine, but there is nothing wrong with going out of your element and opening up a little; you have nothing to lose.
Maybe some people just want to get out of the monotony of drinking at home and want to go to a club/bar but dont feel the want nor need to socialize.
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Apparently your origonal post wasn't thought through very well.
Yeah, I 'spose simple doesn't work for a lot of people...
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If you weren't feeling social, then the reason you go to a club, is beyond me.
.........and I explained it just now -_-
Bar yes, but a club the whole point of a club is to socialise. I mean you could make the argument that someone who doesn't like martial arts would join an MA club becuase they wanted to do some sport rather than sit at home.
If your not feeling sociable, and you want to break the monotony, then going to a venue where sociability is almost a required feature isn't a great plan.
Their may very well be one or two people in this world who do do that, but the vast majority of people when not feeling sociable will not go out.
I mean I dont care if people'll talke to me but I'm not gonna make first convo.