hi, am really good at opening now, but how do i phase from that to attraction. and what do i do for attraction/?
and how do i close, because i know some guys say, "hey some of my friends are having a real cool party...." but generally most of my friends are busy lol and they dont party as much.
or do i say that and then break the plan to something else?
need some seguesstions.
thanks

Hey buddy,

You are asking for a lot to be put on this post. I'd recommend reading Mystery Method or the Venusian Arts Handbook about this. If you are looking at Mystery's M3 Model that is 9 steps. You are just below A1 and you are asking us to get you to after C1 on the list.

A1 - Open
---You are here!
A2 - Female to Male Attraction
A3 - Male to Female Attraction
C1 - Basic comfort Rapport
---# close (you want to close here)
C2- Connection Comfort
C3 - Intimacy Comfort
S1 - Makeout Kissing
S2 - Sexual touching
S3 - Sex

That is why I am saying you are asking a lot. You just asked how do I transition into creating attraction and a little ways into building solid initial rapport with someone. I mean that's got to be like 4 chapters of material for someone to summarize. I would recommend the books so that you get all the facts you need to make it work for you.

Jon

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Seriously brilliant stuff.

Open. Then:

1. Guide the conversation towards activities for another time and location. (Sooner or later, she'll take the bait for one and go, "Oh that sounds sooo cooool . . ."

2. Then you go something like, "Right on . . . it'll be a lot of fun."

3. It's easy to invite a girl to a fun event. "Hey, This Friday, we're all going to _____ . . . it'll be cool. You should join us." (Never give your number first but after you get hers, I think it's a good idea to call her right there and then and go, "Here, now you have my number too. . . yeah, this Friday night a 7pm. It'll be a lot of fun . . . " (The love plugging your name in with the number)

4. High fives, blah blah . . . Then you talk about a few more fun events. (There's plenty more fun where that came from . . )

5. At this point she knows she'll see you again and possibly again and that you're not some creepy weirdo so you can bring up sexual topics. PLENTY of ways to do it and you don't have to be the subject. Ex:

You: Hey, don't look now but I think I saw that guy in a Japanese porn flick.
Her: Him? But he doesn't look Japanese to me.
You: Oh, you're right. I guess he looks more German . . .Well, Really, I don't even watch porn so how would I know?

Or

You: Woh, those guys are making out like their sucking down a pint of hagen daz.
Her: Where!?
You: Oh, you just missed it. That fat guy and that goofy looking dude.
Her: No way, you're a liar.

Or

If she brings up ANYTHING sexual . . .

6. Then you just pounce on that topic and keep feeding SEX to her until she caves in. Then you make out . . . or you change venues with her and make out. (in case you sense she's a bit wary of her surroundings with all her friends or whatever)

Many, many ways to do it.