Does anyone know how to respond to a sudden "F*@k Off" response when trying to open a set.

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It has happened to me and a couple of times to my friend. I had to sit back and think of different ways to approach it.

1. Oh how cute, you think I was hitting on you, nah, just need a quick girls opinion.

2. Ok, it's that attitude that got us here in the first place, that's it, we are threw, I want my cds back.

3. (Looking at her friends) Is she always rude like this? I just have a question.

4. And here I came to complement you on your shoes.

I thought of these late last night, but tell me what you guys think and please add more.......

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Personally, I'd just walk away seeing as its rather obvious she doesn't want to talk.

I also thought about that, but then I thought that out of all the guys that were faced with this situation will either do one of the two.

1. Insult her back or call her names, making them look like a jerk as they stormed off.

and

2. Just take it and walk off, making them seem like a chump.

I think with responding back with a good attitude, not only shows that it didn't faze you but you have higher value than she does. After that you can walk away in cool.

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You're not gonna look like a "chump" for taking it and walking away. It more or less makes you look that you dont really care anyway what she says.

Usually a "F*** off" response is a pretty clear sign she doesn't want to talk to you. Give a quick insulting retort, big smile and then walk off.

~Antithesis

Depends what it was in response to.

If told to fcuk off after making a casual comment or question, I would say to myself outloud "Ha, Bitchez aint shit," and walk away. This is an indirect insult and shows you are calm and cool, she is the one acting weird.

I never got that response, but a similar one on my noob mission a few months back. It was when I saw women waiting to cross the street, one was holding a blank cd on her finger. I spontaneously opened with "Hi my name is Anonymous, FBI. I believe you are in posession of pirated media and must confiscate this disc."
"Yeah right," = fcuk off. Times like this just roll off, its part of trial and error.

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"I never fight silly girls, Im a gentleman."

'Looks like Polly didn't get her cracker today. / Monkey didn't get the banana.' and walk off.

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You can say what mystery would say pleasure meeting you ; shows class and sarcasm

Or If you want to play at that level be like wow somebody woke up in the wrong side of the cage this morning

Lets play horse ill be the front and you can be ureself

If I gave a shyt ud be the first person id give too

No i wouldnt fuck you , ure perverted im leaving

The only thing you will achieve by firing back at her is an ego boost for your own self esteem - don't be so weak!

Remember inner game - just give her the biggest smile or even laugh and walk away - it's no big deal! Or if you have to say something say "nice meeting you guys" (with your smile)

Renaissance,

I definetly like the pleasure meeting you and walk away.

I ran the "and here I came to complement you on your shoes" to a couple of chick friends and they loved it.

Being that they have told several guys before to f- off. They said that comment would completely throw them off.

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I think it's funny. Why would you come to a nightclub dressed like a slut, and be mad or angered when men approach you? Thats like me wearing a police uniform and yelling at people who ask me for help. "Ohh so just cause i'm dressed like this you think i'm a policeman?". hahahahaha

Why bother?

She has no value to you (or shouldnt) she is just a girl in the crowd. Forget her! So, she made you feel bad for a while, it is up to you how long you are gonna let her control your feelings, forget it ASAP!

I never actually had that problem, but sometimes you get a rude reply. I just walk away, laughing about it with my wing, or going into the next set, sometimes using that previous girls behaviour as an opener. Dpending on how rude she was and how bad her ago is I walk away, sometimes kissing my middle finger before drying it in their direction. However, I NEVER, say anything rude to her that is so lame.

And be very careful in case you wanna raise your middle finger... It has to be done in a playful way. It has to be balanced so that it seems to be ironic, a joke between friends or done so that she doesnt know if you mean it or not.

Convey this: I know that I could get upset now but I just dont care enough to... But ok since you beg for it, heres the reaction, aaaah, nah, i dont really care, whatever, nice seeing ya.

Ezo

if you want to get better as a pua you need to figure out what you might have done wrong here. using a false time constraint and a nice indirect opener will usually prevent this from happening.

simply forgetting it and moving on is NOT gonna help you. you have to learn from your mistakes.

that being said, when it does happen, a bad reaction could compromise your value to surrounding sets. so you in this situation you will want to be as unreactive as possible.