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You should be saying positive affirmations like "I RULE because my pickup knowledge & skills are a big ADVANTAGE" instead of the title of this thread. You should say that out loud like 20 times every day. I use a lot of affirmations and visualization to make progress towards all my goals. You should use those every day when you wake up and just before you go to sleep. Those are the two times when you are the most open to hypnotic suggestion. You can reprogram your mind that way. I recommend getting "Maximum Achievement" by Brian Tracy. I also like his "Phoenix Seminar" and "Goals" audio CD's. He explains how to write goals, make plans, and use affirmations and visualization.