i have been goin to this college for about 6 months and only in the past month i have started noticing this girl in my class, we have become really close. one night on msn she ask me if i like her and i told her she is a special friend and i ended it there. the next day the convo comes up again and she tells me that i am too young for her she is 22 and i am 19. we've spent a whole day together alone but i didnt go for anything. she now tells me she has a boyfriend but she still flirts with me. to make things worse the guy she is supposedly goin out with doesnt exist. either way even if the guy exists how do i get her. i seem to be really scared of going in for kiss on the fact that i am scared if she shuts me down. my mate keeps telling me that she is pissed of at me cause i didnt try anything on her so it is a payback type of thing.

regards vlas

p.s new to this pick up stuff

Study the DiCarlo escalation ladder and use it on her.
Just kiss her when you feel like it.
Girls just wait for guys to kiss them and they think you're stupid if you don't.
All that stuff she said about age and boyfriend is bullshit.
She was just testing you to see if she could shake your confidence.
If you let it bother you, then you lose.
Don't believe what she says. Watch what she does instead.
Next time she says some dumb shit like that, treat it like a joke and make fun of her.
You could tease her and say she's not pretty enough because she's too old.
muhahahahaha
That will fuck her up and make her desperate to prove you wrong.

Study everything by SwinggCat and Vin DiCarlo.

She's just one girl. College is one of the best places to meet girls.
You don't need her.
There's probably a lot of other girls in college that you'd like more than her.

More info... you can tell us what all was said at a time
when she said your to young it's opertune to flert....age doent matter
she wanted you to flert with her or qualify her .. she shouldnt be qualifying you..

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ok she ask me one night:
girl: do you like me
me: yes, but as a special friend
girl: wat do you mean a special friend
(no wat i said was pretty stupid i think...at the time i didnt know wat to say cause my heart was racing a million miles per hour)
me: just as a eally good friend
girl: wat if i want to be more than friends (something along that line refering to herself)

i ended the convo there

the next day i brought the subject up cause her friends were acting weird by asking me if i want to sit next to her and constantly smiling at me. she told she doesnt date guys younger than her brothers age who has just turned 20.
now she tells me she is going out with some guy who doesnt exist and she tells me where they go and it has only been to the movies to watch guy flicks which seemed weird cause on a date you dont go to the movies and watch something you want to watch that involes blood and shooting especially if the girl is into romance. and she asked me wat i thought and i told her its lame and childish goin to the movies on the 3rd date.
anyway the guy doesnt exist due to me asking question through my friends who know her friends.
and lately she is acting really cold to me adn i assume she is playing hard to get.

thanks to everyone who has helped i read decarlo's stuff and will be trying it.
regards vlas

DUDE AGE DON'T matter.
LoL your really bad off... I'm glad you found the community.
Your gonna have to do some major game improvment..
Sounds like you come from a un-evolved place... or middle school
Anyways YOU need to find your balls and be a fuckin man.
she obvisly like you so hook up with her....
SHE IS not a freaking wierdo
you dont have to worry being arond her. THEN i might be nervious

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