Ya know sometimes I just feel like giving up on women completely. I'm in a wheelchair, so they don't see me as a "guy" they just see me as the poor person in the goddamn wheelchair and I'm seriously fucking sick of it! I was at the bar tonight( a bar I'm familiar with and know people who work there) and at least while I was there I saw only 3 girls worth fucking and they all worked there. One had a ring on her finger, the best looking one couldn't even LOOK at me until I was ready to leave. A lot of tactics and whatnot to approach I can't do because I'm limited in mobility. That's just a fact. Tonight at the end when I was leaving my friend went to the bathroom so I stood up in the chair in front of the two hired guns (1 was the one that wouldnt look at me) and the bouncer and the one hb said "that's a really cool chair, I've never seen anything like that" and I just muffed it. I've become so used to having hb's ignore me that when they talk to me at all I go totally AFC dumbass niceguy. I don't know and I don't have any answers. #closing one of those 2 would have been awesome but at this point it seems more like a dream than a reality....

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"Do not go where the path may lead, go instead where there is no path and leave a trail"-Emerson

Constantine:

This will sound mad cliché but if you think it's a dream, it's a dream. If you think it can be a reality, it can be a reality.

Thinking: "I'm in a wheel chair, no girl will ever want me" is a Limiting Belief.

Christopher Reeve was in a wheel chair, so was Teddy Pendergrass, Stephen Hawking, and President Roosevelt.

I'm sure they all got plenty of ass.


The point is, don't let some thing physical get in the way of your confidence, because that is more important than your whole appearance.

We all have something wrong with us, the point is that we shouldn't let our im perfections define us.

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Theyredhot is right.

If there's one thing I learned in the past couple of years is that your thoughts have a big impact on everything. I used to be really depressed, angry, and an all around unhappy person. Then I came across this blog.

http://blogs.myspace.com/index.cfm?fuse ... =355237737

I learned to think positive. Even if I was lying, I would tell myself I was happy, and eventually I came to believe that lie, and at that point, it wasn't a lie anymore. I turned into this super happy optimistic person. It all comes from thinking positive.

Have you ever heard of the Law of Attraction? It's one of those new age kookiness, but there is a lot of truth to it. Basically it says that whatever you think, you get. Thus the reason you get more of what you have.

Dude I don’t care if you dick is broken you can still game
If your dick was broke that don't mean you cant have other fun like playing with tities.....
Girls don't care either.....
You had better balls the fuck up and forget about your status .....
You are just another fucking guy who is dam fine that all the girls want to jump on.
I DON'T CARE WHO YOU ARE...... EVERY GUY HAS THE SAME ODDS WITH A GIRL BASSED ON JUST LOOKING AT THEM.....
What sets apart the losers from the winners is there knowledge/experience
You have to know how to treat a girl and adapt to the different types.

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Dude, your wheelchair problem is a pain in the ass to say the least im sure. What you need to be able to do is find a way to work that into openers and routines. When you open you will have interesting stories, but make sure they are upbeat.

Also, for starters, to get more experience in a HB contact situation you may want to start with day game. while it is admittedly more difficult, it just seems like a logical way for you to approach it. just a thought.

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I want you to search around online for Sean Stephenson. He is only a few feet tall, he requires the use of a wheelchair for mobility and he is also regarded as a MPUA and very in demand speaker and therapist. Finding out more about his story may serve to inspire you.

In my life I have personally worked with people with various psychological challenges and a few with physical challenges as well and I can personally tell you that what it really comes down to. The difference between success and failure for people with psychical or mental challenges as well for those without those same challenges, is simply the space between your ears. Your mindset, your beliefs and your perceptions act like a compass guiding you down a path in life. You can choose to make the best of thing or not.

I urge you to take some time and think about that idea and if you do, I'm sure you'll come to realize that there is more and that your are capable of leading your best possible life.

haha doc i beat u to it

lol damn, I must be getting slow in my old age

When you say "I suck because I have a big disadvantage" you are negatively programming and hypnotising your mind. You're programming yourself to fail. You have to STOP that completely, and start thinking only positive and supportive thoughts about yourself. Think about the good things you want out of life and imagine yourself having and enjoying them. Do that all the time instead of thinking negative thoughts all the time.

I wonder how eazy it would be for you to sarge girls who also use wheelchairs. Thats a great place to start.

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[quote="Westside"]I wonder how eazy it would be for you to sarge girls who also use wheelchairs. Thats a great place to start.[/equote]Haha, sarging girls in wheelchairs? It's like taking candy from a baby. It's really easy man for real. I can get anyone of them but it's just creepy doing sexual stuff with them. Also I've already watched 145 Sean Stephenson videos...I know there are other people even on here with disabilities but it's hard really understand just how huge of a disadvantage being confined to a WHEELCHAIR is. Remember, I was able to walk for most of my life so I know the sentiment. In fact 2 female friends of mine admitted that initially women who don't know me dont even see me as a "guy", they just see me as "a handicapped person". So I do appreciate the advice but I've already done most of that (of course you wouldn't know that) and I pretty much know where I stand. I think the best idea was to incorporate the wheelchair into openers and materials. The fact that my wheelchair stands up and no one has ever seen that before usually sparks converstations as it did the other night. It's up to me however to take it from there though and I flopped.

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Hi,

near to where I live there is a guy who I see quite often near the beach in his wheelchair. Jesus, this guy has come great cocky funny stuff going for him and you should see some of the broads walking beside him and his chair. OK, I don't know the guy but i reckon he must be getting some action by the sounds of it.

Everything dude is just in the mind. Good luck bro.

You've got the same problem as Asian men, just to a slightly greater degree. Women don't initially see you as a viable sexual partner like a regular "guy."

You can fix that with sexual framing. Check out my sticky in the Mid-Game section on Sexual Attraction.

Agreed with Chief, try sexual framing.

I want to tell you a story my friend;

I was at a party down town not too long ago, some of the classiest people I know where there, some artists who I envy and some minor celebrities. There was a man I met there named Evan, he was in a wheel chair, although this wheel chair was "pimped out" as he said. It was purple, painted I assumed, with a few sparkles, also it had some [fake] jewels in it, looked like something from a kid's dream. He wore a nice dinner jacket and a Fedora hat (similar to my usual outfit..). I commented on how cool of a wheelchair it seemed, he smiled and we started to talk. It turns out Evan was also playing the game, and he's been real successful. I was curious to see him in action, so I picked a target for him (HB10) and told him to Sarge her. He told me to sign his wheel chair in permanent marker, I signed it Rhythms.

What happened later totally surprised me. He simply just strolled by her and she opened to him, the conversation went by like this:

HB: Wow thats a really cool wheelchair!
Evan: (smiling) Why thanks! Its a special wheelchair, Its been with me through thick and thin. Its signed by my good friend Rhythms he's an amazing producer, have you ever heard of him?

I couldn't believe it, this guy just used my signature to pick up another girl! They talked for a good while, later during the party I happened to see them both "in action" at the back of the club, her sitting on top of him. Later that night he came towards me and showed me a piece of paper.
Her name, number and address.

I was very impressed. He was better then a lot of others i've seen.
We go winging when ever we can, he's a really chill guy. Uses a lot of Cocky Funny.

BUT the point of that story was that if he can do it and Sean Stephenson can, i'm sure you could do it too. Just think to yourself, Your tougher then most of the people here, and you can still pick up girls even with a handicap. Here's an idea, do the same thing Evan did, When ever someone comments on how cool your wheelchair is tell them a cool story (:

I hope that helped a lot man, and don't give up on women. One day you'll be an amazing PUA that we'll all look up to. Love & Peace.
-Rhythms

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