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zhukaching
PostPosted: Sat Jun 13, 2009 1:32 am 
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i started to realize recently that i just talk too much. that i know the girl have attraction and she is willing to contribute in the situation, i still control the frame too much that it is almost rigid, i can't even help it thats like my personality but i dont think its good for building comfort. any tips on how to improve listening?
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Talk less. Ask open ended questions and leading questions to make her fill out more of the conversation.

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You from China? Recognized from the name.

But onto the question - take her to dinner. Order something large - or other alot. Then you can eat while she talks. This of course - just helps the listening part.

Remember the line 'If she doesn't talk - we cannot build rapport. Without rapport, the relationship will fail.'
Not sure if the line helps tho. Just a little reminder.
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Do you talk to much or ask to many questions?
Talking to much is kinof like going on about yourself "witch is arrogent".
To many questions makes them uncomfortable ... it developes a wierdo status for yourself.

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Do you talk to much or ask to many questions?
Talking to much is kinof like going on about yourself "witch is arrogent".
To many questions makes them uncomfortable ... it developes a wierdo status for yourself.
i dont question much, i just have too much opinion on stuff :P i guess i have to be more conscious about listening. im just wondering, is there any clue to see if a girl want to show off or say something that she is passionate about so that i can be more alert when it comes?
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My advice is to pay attention whenever she's talking - not out of respect(completely) but out of Fear for DA SH*T TEST!
If she asks you sometime later 'What's my favourite colour' (Unlikely I know) but if she does - you're gonna have to blast your way out of it (lol).
Remember the Annihilation Method advice - 'Three Strikes and you're out' Meaning you can be CF for 3 times - then u gotta giv a plausible and good answer.
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im just wondering, is there any clue to see if a girl want to show off or say something that she is passionate about so that i can be more alert when it comes?
YES, non verbal pay attention to how she is moving looking reacting.... keep your cool though ... don’t be starring at her like a weirdo use a seductive look on her that is very sexual.
Always be listening to her... if you miss something fucking be like I’m sorry say agen..

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