ok if ur gaming a girl right and uve escalated to texting and stuff like taht...never and i mean NEVER ask her how she feels you guys stand...especially if its early in the relationship...this has happened twice to me when i busted out the "so what do u feel about us" question and both times it ended up creeping the girl out and ruing any chance i had with her so just a random tip guys lol

/agreed

eh, I've done it once with success, on a girl i was trying new things with.

Met 4 days before that and hooked up 3 days after lol

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like kristall said,

You can get away with it

Id also add don't tell her how you feel about her/the relationship/lack thereof either. Instant eww.

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lol totaly true.you have to be able to tell yourself or ask her in a hidden way.

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There's a lot of things you shouldn't ask girls, cuz they are a bunch of dumb twats who are inclined to put up barriers and shoot you down. Instead you have to lead them, change their states, seduce them, take the initiative, just do things without asking. Asking them for permission about anything often gets a "NO"
Also alpha males are supposed to do things without asking, so if you ask, then that kinda implies you're not an alpha male.

I said this once and got a "Us? I don't think there is an us"

Yep it's a bit of a stupid question to ask. There was this one girl I had already F-closed and I was out at the pub with her, she was acting a bit weird because she was unhappy about something or other. My mate ended up talking to her and asked her "So what's up with you and antic?" Pretty much screwed up all the attraction I had built. I have to teach my mates some game...

when she asks: how many women have you slept with?......no number is a good number

You have awful beliefs when it comes to women and alpha males.

1. An alpha male is a leader, not some cunt who just does whatever he wants without asking. Asking and gathering info from and for the groups own good, is a huge part of being a leader and thus being alpha.


2. Learn to understand love and respect women it will improve your game.

3. This question can be asked, but has to be done low pressure, you ask her in a high pressure way, she will shirk away from it.

Generally speaking it depends on the vibe of the relatioship, getting all serious about "us" when your two weeks into aflirty relationship is entirely different to two weeks in something where a much more serious bond has been made.

Case by case by case man (Y)

this shit is good, the message it conveys is good as itself.

The way you say it.. "so how do you feel about us" is BAD (!) because it is approval seeking
I use us a lot with a girl, to make connection. I m saying things like, "we are weird"
lol
or "i think us is cute"
it works for me

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Because girls don't like sex.. Yeah RIGHT!
Why else do you think girls have P*ssies

Just a tip, approval seeking with concerns to a relationship is not bad.

Ensuring the happiness of both parties is kind of the base in relationships.