After half a year since i found the community, I just came to this realization:

The game doesnt get you the girl, it only gives you the guts to start talking to the woman you like, and guts is what really gets you the girl.

I don't mean the stuff don't work, neg works very well, so is C&F and other stuff. what i mean is how the community gets you the girl is that it break your limiting beliefs, some deep seeded belief that pulls you back. things like "its all chemistry and i have no control over feeling" are now gone and you start approaching and get better with woman.

What happen to me is, when i first started out, i keep reading non-stop, and i always feel inspired and i think i know a lot, but i am still not that good with woman. until i start making the effort to actually do the approaches, i just get better and i read less material. id never really been able to recognize where in M3 model im in or how to read IOIs, but i know how to make a girl laugh, how to listen to what the girl is trying to communicate, getting that flirty vibe going on and have fun.

so what point am i trying to make? guts and persistence, that is all it takes to get good with woman. its your determination that gets you the girl, not the readings and understanding. for people who are still reading and analyzing now, i challenge you to get out of your house right now, talk randomly to 30 woman, and see if you have instant improve. if you think im talking BS, prove me wrong, with field experience

congratulations on posting no original content

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Every Saint has a Past, Every Sinner has a Future

Congratulations on doing exactly the same.

The guy had an epiphany. We should applaud him for it.

~Antithesis

an 'epiphany' that's reposted like every other day.

Its not an epiphany when you read it weeks ago and didn't understand it until now.

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Every Saint has a Past, Every Sinner has a Future

Actually, that's exactly what it is. Look at #3:

e⋅piph⋅a⋅ny
  /ɪˈpɪfəni/ Show Spelled Pronunciation [i-pif-uh-nee] Show IPA
–noun, plural -nies.
1. (initial capital letter) a Christian festival, observed on January 6, commemorating the manifestation of Christ to the gentiles in the persons of the Magi; Twelfth-day.
2. an appearance or manifestation, esp. of a deity.
3. a sudden, intuitive perception of or insight into the reality or essential meaning of something, usually initiated by some simple, homely, or commonplace occurrence or experience.
4. a literary work or section of a work presenting, usually symbolically, such a moment of revelation and insight.


Zhuk,

Good for you, now you're really going to start having fun. I totally agree with you. All of this reading, it's just a skeleton outline of what happens between men and women. It's good to know though, but now you can put it in the back of your head and just have fun with everything. You've got a rough guide, and you have the tools to work the rest out! Good for you and have a blast!

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"As to the deceit perpetrated upon women, let it pass, for, when love is in the way, men and women as a general rule dupe each other."
-Giacomo Casanova

still doesn't apply, because reading an epiphany and reiterating it isn't another epiphany.

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Every Saint has a Past, Every Sinner has a Future

You seem to be stuck on the idea that because it's old news to you, then it is old news to everybody else. I didn't say it was your epiphany-- it was his.

~Antithesis

that he didn't need to post.

generally by the time people have these 'epiphany's they should be at a level where they realize their being a total noob by posting it again.

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@ KN: Who... Cares???? If you don't like it then don't read it.

hey guys sorry if you think my post wasted your bandwidth/time i didn't intend to make something inspirational, i just want to add my voice to the "stop keyboard jocking and do something" thingy. afterall the most important thing is getting laid and helping others to get laid, right?

To some people its the most important thing and to others its not.

Hello,

I am 5 months into the game and this is pretty much the realisation that I hav had.

Field experience is what really improves your game. I can't be all my life simply preparing to do it. There must come a stage when I actually pull the trigger, use the rejection as a learning tool and move on or get the girl. So, I was thiknig of deliberately stopping using the internet for a few weeks and use the time to improve my game with real experience.

So zhukaching, how many new girls per month do you fuck?

What have you accomplished in the field so far?
How long did it take?

How cute, an egotistical attitude towards someone's progress
as a human being.

You have the rest of your life to get good at this, why fuck yourself
up in the progress?

Take it slow, do it right zhukaching.

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I'm addicted to facing my fears.

Besch is right, Pick up is not a competition, it is about changing your life for the positive. Everyones lives are different so it would be dumb to compare.