When I started out I thought that it was all about getting the girl. It isnt.

Who is more important, you or the girls you meet? You have a chance of improving every aspect of your life, take it.

After a while you reach the point when you know that you can open a set, seduce her and forget her. There are more fish in the sea right? Thats correct, there are. Still we are focused on sleeping with her before, to prove our manliness or prove that we can or something else. Whatever.

So many people chase the same girl for ages, ok been there done that. Im the first one to admit that I have done every mistake there is.

People used to take all the crap the girls pushed at them just to get the girl in their AFC days. Now they take it to win the game, in their PUA days.

Guess what, there is no save function in the game, whether you slept with the girl or not does not matter tomorrow unless she becomes your girlfriend.

Believe it or not, there are more important things in life than getting laid right now and right here (also because it is my place and I dont want you screwing here while I sleep).

So whenever you have the chance to get laid, take it! But, also ask yourselves, is it worth it? Is it worth all the trouble? Is it worth paying a dinner to screw a mediocre girl? Is it worth humiliation or fighting with your friends just to screw that girl?

The game has so much more to offer than girls, develop your personality. Give yourselves permission to dare to try new things. Get confident. Grab life by the balls (wash your hands afterwards)! Girls will come too. Some are just not worth the trouble. The only times I trouble myself with difficult girls is when I want to learn from it or when there are feelings involved.

Grow, bloom and evolve, not for the sake of the girls but for your own sake.

Ezo

Ezo, two thumbs up man. Absolutely agree with what you wrote.
Althought I found that the only way to come to this realization is to actually go through a phase were the only thing that matters to you is getting better with women, then U'll (the guys in general) realize that women aren't the be-all end-all of life.

My supreme aim is self and other's constant improvement.

Wise post man,

File

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great post, I have noticed this recently I don't need to do 100 approaches or whatever. I am happy with my level and now I am improving so I can teach and help other guys get this feeling. I think after a while you don't pick up girls they just kinda start appearing and liking you because you can offer a taste of an awesome life.

I always thought the live in your own reality was for avoiding being needy and dodging shit tests. To a degree it is but I think once your reality/life is genuinely awesome women will want to be a part of it. SO it become less chasing women more choosing women. (that is a cool slogan someone should use it "Don't chase women, choose them")

This is truely a really good post and indeed a good thread. By going out on weekends and opening, and hooking sets I could see my confidence growing by the day which reflects at other parts of my life.

8 months back I was introduced to a very hot brunette at a club by her friends and they wanted me to dance with her etc.. I was soo clueless that I blew myself out in less than 5mins dispite having her friend's approval. Fast forward to the present day, I have enjoyed the company of better, prettier women just by being confident.

I think the game give sU a chance of changing your lifestyle and right Its not always about the girl.

HOLY FUCK!!!! I guess I'm not the only one that thinks this ^_^