This is what happened with a HB who is in salsa class with me.

she (HB) arrived too late during the lesson with her friend (who is attracted to me). When it was our turn to dance she was smiling and having fun, what she doesn't do with others. at the end of the turn i told her 'it are always the same girls who are to late' she looked to the ground and felt uncomfortlable. I said 'you know i'm wright' her answer was 'no comment'. when i said somethin about a situation her reply was very short. she didn't look at me (and didn't look at her). I danced with other women and had fun. at the end of the lesson someone tried to pass me and touches my body very gentle to pass me, It was her! at the end of the lesson I said bye to them she said bye back with a little forced smile.

My questions are:

Did I negged her too hard with saying she was late? and does she consider me more as a bastard then a potential lover now?

The way she touched me, was that an IOI?

last one... I want make her feel comfortlable again (I showed my dominance enough) how to do this?

Thanks

You did neg her too much.

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you did neg her to much

i disagree its not that you negged her too much. at least not in what you said, but what about how you said it. Im willing to bet that if you made the same comment while smiling at her in a joking/flirty tone it would have been much different. Oh and whenever a girl touches you big IOI

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