Hi, to start out a long time ago when i was a AFC i met this girl which i fell in love with, however she had a bf, after 4 years of chatting with her, going to partys and going all through all of highschool, she finnaly broke up with her boyfriend, well three days after the breakup i told her how i felt about her. needless to say she did not feel the same way. (Friends? Or still recovering from breakup?)


That was probably the worst day of my life, shortly after i stopped talking to her, i was so hurt that i just cut all ties that i had with her, as well as any friends in the group of friends we shared. After this i was headed on a bad path and found myself very depressed and lonely, Xbox became my best friend. i finally said enough was enough and started looking for other girls, however it seemed impossible. Finally i discovered this hidden world of pua. I studied it very hard, i was spent countless hours watching videos from style mystery and David Deangelo as well as creating routines and applying them.

For the next 3 years of my life i worked on picking up girls, Finally in my mind i had become a true PUA an i had become good a picking up girls. In total have got a total of 7 lays using this material. However i have still never had a gf!! To me it did not seem worth it, why would i go out with a girl who i can already have sex with? Honestly i have not come close to loving any of these 7 girls i have been with.


So fast forwarding a little bit, a total of 3 years have gone by since i have talked to the girl i had once loved, however i recently got a text on my birthday from the girl. I started chatting her up and we ended up going to dinner the following week, at dinner we both had a great time and needless to say i fell in love again.

Now what the hell do i do???? I will arrange to meet with her again however i CANNOT go through what i did before, im thinking should i just ask her how she feels about me and let her know that i will not be friends with her, as it will tear me apart? or should i just try to go for the kiss close? or should i try to forget about her?



Guys i need help, i have no idea what i should do.

Firstly, to successfully cut all ties with someone, (which can be incredibly freeing and positive) you have to cut your emotional ties. That doesn't mean repressing or covering your emotional ties it means break them. A great way to do this is through the help of a life coach, (if you need help finding one, PM and I'll search my agency for suitable coach for your needs).

If you don't want to use a coach there are other methods that you can check out. Just Google 'cutting emotional ties+NLP'.

As far as this current situation is concerned, my gut tells me that she'd only come back if she's interested in you in some way. I wouldn't risk the years of heartache and longing you once had and not tell her.

So tell her what interests you about her and how "you want to get to know her at a more intimate level."

This is a guess, but I think it's how you feel. Try expressing this to her: You're not going to get to know her from afar, you want her completely and as she is, which means getting to know every part of her emotionally and physically. If she's willing to accept you as you are, then you can start the exciting and adventurous journey of discovering eachother through something more than a friendship.

Hope this helps buddy.



LoveJunkie

Thanks of the response, i guess i need to tell her straight up ehh, honestly i dont no what to do, prob not the best idea but im leading to just not contacting her again, probably just better for me that way. Uhhh

And by the way when she texted me on my b-day, she ended up asking me to dinner. I really need to figure out what kind of relationship she is looking for, after dinner she did give me a little neck massage after i told her my neck is a little sore, not sure how strong of a ioi that is. What do you guys think?