Hey guys,
I am kinda new to this forum, actually this will be my first post. Im knew to this whole art form, luckily for me I already have some of the charecteristics of PUA, like good confidence and ice breakers and im not to desperate for girls which makes me somewhat of a challenge. Having said that I couple of months back i met this HB 8, who i think is a very smart and knowledgeable girl. I kinda gamed her C&F and then comforted her, I didnt pursue just kinda kept nudging we kissed and made out after our 3rd meeting and she told she has never felt so comfortable so quick with someone. She said she likes me and im sweet. We both were in college and now the semester has ended and she has gone home (international student) for the summer wont be back till August, we exchange msgs on facebook every 3 or 4 days, but sometimes she just doesnt reply, I act like i dont care and dont push the issue.
She does mention that she misses me and wishes that I was there and I just respond I feel the same way but never too excitedly.

Now here is the problem, I see her online on Facebook and wait for her to send me an IM on facebook but she never does she just goes offline, and i never try to msg because I wanna be a challenge and consider that im a good catch for her. So im confused because on one hand she messages me and tells me that she misses me and on the other hand she is online and never messages me, sometimes out of the blue she will text me and then....nothing for days.

I am confused as to how to handle this situation because I really seem to like her and cant wait to see her back next semester to game her in for sure, but still wanna keep some interest alive so that the restart wud be better. Also, how should I communicate with her online while she is gone??? Also, how exactly do u think she might be feeling judgig by her actions

I wud appreciate some advice since u guys are so much more experienced than me,
poet

SP,
Looks like your the one getting "gamed". She may only miss you when her and her bf have a fight back home... You never know.
Here's what you need to do.
1. Be natural. If you see her online, just say Hi or hey there or something funny.
2. Don't play games. They will backfire every time.
3. Meet other girls that are local.
4. If your girl is hot and cold that's her problem. Because you have other options. Just let it all happen.
5. Girls don't like confused guys. They like guys who know what to do. Even if knowing what to do is not getting caught in their games.

Imagine the feeling of meeting a super hot girl tomorrow. And it got hot and heavy very fast... Would you be sitting around waiting on FaceBook for a message from your girl from school?
No way...
Next

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Jessie
Phermax Pheromones

SP,
Looks like your the one getting "gamed". She may only miss you when her and her bf have a fight back home... You never know.
Here's what you need to do.
1. Be natural. If you see her online, just say Hi or hey there or something funny.
2. Don't play games. They will backfire every time.
3. Meet other girls that are local.
4. If your girl is hot and cold that's her problem. Because you have other options. Just let it all happen.
5. Girls don't like confused guys. They like guys who know what to do. Even if knowing what to do is not getting caught in their games.

Imagine the feeling of meeting a super hot girl tomorrow. And it got hot and heavy very fast... Would you be sitting around waiting on FaceBook for a message from your girl from school?
No way...
Next

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Jessie
Phermax Pheromones

You are right, but well as far as i know she doesnt have a boyfriend, secondly yes I do all of the things you mentioned i do play it very cool and funny as if nothing bothers me. So i guess that should help. So you think i should just relax and let it play out and meet other people and dont worry about this one just keep it light and funny? no pushing? is it okay to innitiate a conversation though?? or should i mix it up?

and thanks for ur help i appreciate it....

Far as I understand it's ok to start a conversation on IM as long as you have an opener (just like at a bar). I.e. 'Hey, so I saw something today that reminded me of you... [insert story]' or something like that.

Just be careful not to get one-itis over this girl. In fact, try ignoring her for longer periods of time as well. She takes 4 days to answer a message, you take 6 for the reply. If the time period keeps extending just drop the whole thing till after summer (you have better things to do, GFTOG!), if it keeps getting shorter that's an IOI of sorts.

Take my words with a grain of salt, I'm just a keyboard jockey for now But what i said seems sound to me and in correlation with what I've read. Good luck!

thanks man, yeah i think im just gonna reply late now, and start a conversation with a story. yeah oneitis is a bad thing and makes u become clingyy.... and thats worst, and so far i havent been clingy... thanks for the help ill keep u guys posted!!
SP