Hey guys,

Well im glad to say that i lost my V plates as of last night. Its been a long wait and i dunno why i had stopped myself previous times, but i decided i wanted to get it ova and done with. I am 21 btw.

Question is tho... Ive seen this girl a few times now id prob class her as my GF as of now. But... sex, it wasnt what i thought it all the hype was about. I mean it was good and all but beening a virgin and all i thought i would of had to of lasted about a minute or so, yet i lasted for over and hour and was still going till i decided to just stop. I just couldnt blow lol. I dunno what it was maybe i was nervous and felt akward in thinking if i was doing a good job or not, and i think it made her think that she was bad in bed, she said it was good tho and she knew it was my first time.

Has anyones first time been like this? suppose the more i do it the better it will be? Either way it has lifted a huge weight from my shoulders now that i have done it and boosts my confidence a lot

Hey man, yeah Ive had a couple similar experiances and a couple stories to go with it.

1) I lost my virginity (technically) at 17, I've slept with 4 girls now, it was at a friends 18th Birthday party, and well most of my friends had lost there V already, and although they didnt make a big deal about it, It made me feel inferior quite abit, so I decided I was just going to get laid once and for all.

So anyway, was at a classy hotel, and we were all in Suits, and i was dancing with some girl, I'd give her an 8 at the time, but I was pretty drunk, probably more like a 6.5 lol, but anyway this bird was totally up for it, but my friend had the room key (like 8 of us were planning on crashing in this 1 room) and well i explained the situation, but the tight bastard wouldnt give it me, hes a twat and no longer my friend, so anyway, I ended up leaving the girl.

Later on i was playing a drinking game with some friends, and this girl we'll call her Kelly was kind showing me heavy kino,(she also had a BF whos a Dick) and well we ended up leaving our friends and fucking on some emergency exit stairs, not as romantic as I'd have liked, but anyways, it lasted like an hour, and I got bored and just stopped, I couldnt blow my load I think it could have been that i was just too alcohol induced, I dont remember being very nervous.

2) This is slightly shorter, I slept with my then Virgin GF for the first time like a year ago, it didnt work out and were now separated, and well the first time was pretty aweful, and lasted about 30mins, I couldnt blow my load, she kinda just lay there and was pretty shy, so I was nice and kept it slow, but was feeling nothing at the time. Although a few days later we did it again and once she felt more comfortable so did I and it was much better.

I guess you might have just built it up in your head too much, or maybe you'd been drinking too much? anyways you should just try it again and will probably feel much more relaxed now knowing its not that big of a deal.

I hope this helps.

Yeah i think it was the fact i had built it up so much in my head that i felt akward or somthing. I didnt have any booze before hand so it wasnt that, cheers tho... will give it another crack when i see her agian

Hey Willy.

Same thing happened to me lad. I was the last of a lot of my mates to lose my virginity. I thought it was a big deal myself and wanted to wait for "that special someone" (goddammit what a fool I was). Lasted about an hour or so and it was pretty good, but didn't cum. I just stopped bcos I started thinking to myself that I should, and was trying to think what she was thinking. Just got into my own head.

I felt like king of the world though walking home!

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hah yeah. Im guessing it got better the next time u did it?

I guess you were not relaxed enough. You don't have to be nervous when you ar doing it because than there is nothing fun about sex. Just relax more. Although my first time wasn't as bad as your first time, I do have to tell you that the more comfortable you are gonna get with her and having sex, the better it is gonna be. So don't worry, it will only get better

Yup my first time was the same, eventually you will get used to it and it will be fine. I love how someone else had a kinda is this it moment hehehe I was like yeah that was good and all but really? thats what I have been chasing for years lol