I'm really into getting a lot of attention, adopted child, a complex maybe, sure.

In the last three months, I've quit smoking, worked out diligently, actively cultivated my social network, invested in my dietary health, and I have approached probably well over 75 attractive women. This is all new, and I'm not sure what's come over me, but I've learned this: pick-up is fun, it's adventurous, it leads to memorable nights, it leads to sex, and love, maybe. I'm fixated.

I need help though. I don't know if attraction building is supposed to backfire like this, but I've now been in three situations where the target I'm trying to game decides to literally come after me in a violent, threatening manner. In these situations, I don't just get ignored or blown off, but actually chased, pursued. I'm often then threatened by the target's male friends who have no idea what happened, all they know is the target has decided that I'm the biggest asshole in the universe. "The Fuck did you Say to Her!??"

Two of the times, the scene has ended with my being evicted from the venue without any form of adjudication. No, It's definitely not what I'm saying- this normally happens in very early stages of attraction-building with well intoxicated drunk girls (I am usually sober). Needless to say, I'm beginning to fear that I'm going to get into a serious fight if I don't figure out what I'm doing to evoke this reaction.

I can give you more details if you're interested. but I would like to know if this end-result has been experienced by anyone else.. It's like some sort of a switch, an aggression/hatred/attraction type thing... I can't be the only one to experience this fascinating phenomenon.

Hi,

dude, I think that as long as you let it be known that a) this is nothing serious
b) we are just two strangers c) I don´t hit on you until you give me some positive IOIs then odds are that you will not have much trouble.

But, you are always going to bump into some babes that don´t want to know. Their lives are perfect or whatever the fuck, but the bottom line is they don´t want to know so you just press onto number 76. It is about having fun and others having fun. Common sense dictates when you should eject and are just wasting your time.

Good luck,