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| Porphyro | PostPosted: Mon May 18, 2009 2:28 pm | |
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Posts: 3 | | Ok so here's my problem, my ex broke up with me a long time ago now, recently she broke up with her new boyfriend, we've started talking again and she invited me around to her place, some thing happened. anyway the point is she said that she misses me, then she went on to say (in a playful way) you bastard why are you so nice, now everything is just so complicated. i'm really confused and its driving me out of my mind. honestly i think she is scared to go out with me again. Any suggestions would be very greatly appreciated.
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| Jac Cecil | PostPosted: Mon May 18, 2009 3:22 pm | |
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Location: Portland, Oregon | | You don't necessarily have to get back together with her. Why not just be friends with some benefits? If you want to get back together with her I would advise against it. She broke up with you and got another guy; now that she's broken up with him she wants you back. Getting back with her would show weakness and that she can have you whenever she wants on her terms. if you want to be a PUA, then you have to be in control of the situation, not her.
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| Porphyro | PostPosted: Mon May 18, 2009 3:47 pm | |
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Posts: 3 | | Thankyou for the reply. say i did want to get back with her, but on my terms, how should i go about it, your definatly right about the control of the situation thing. how could i shift the balance, considering ive messed things up considerably, but im from the, nothing but death is certain school of thought
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| Jac Cecil | PostPosted: Mon May 18, 2009 3:53 pm | |
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Location: Portland, Oregon | | I would you recommend you go out and sarge multiple girls. Get number closes and take them out in public, and make sure the girl you want to get back together with knows about it. She'll see that you can have any girl that you want and that she'll have to compete for you. Switch the roles make her have to win you over.
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| Cassie W | PostPosted: Mon May 18, 2009 11:02 pm | |
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Location: Australia | | Yeah, i'd agree with Jac here. From past experience you need to appear unavailable, and the best way to achieve this is to become unavailable. Keep busy, carry on with your life as you were before this situation arose. Look at things in broader terms, i'm sure she's not that important in the grand scheme of your life. Things become easier when you actually believe this and you're not just trying to act this way. Sarge hard.
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| Porphyro | PostPosted: Thu Jun 04, 2009 11:55 pm | |
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Posts: 3 | | Hey thanks for the replies guys, took the advice, ive got myself a wing now close to where i live, plan to sarge hard over summer
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