First of all you need to shed the misconception implied in your post that women
don't want to be seduced. It's not only an obviously limiting belief but also patently false--women want sex just as bad if not worse than men. They just want to make sure their partner is a worthwhile investment of time and energy first.
That said, MILF game is not all that different than regular game. There is a heavier emphasis placed on demonstrating 1) maturity and 2) discretion, but apart from that it's basically the same. Flirty vibe, sexual state, have some fun
This is coming from a guy who slept with a 36 year old mother of three when he was 18, by the way, so it's definitely possible. All you have to do is believe it's possible.
Your boy,
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