Hi everyone this is my first post and im sure a popular topic.....my ever eternal question is... is it better to keep your current girlfriend until you find something better or let her go and go for the kind of girl you really want??

The trick is everytime you go for what you 'think' you want you end up finding something you dont like or it turns out to be something you didnt really want at all. Girls play up their best image at first but tend to change when you get them. After getting too comfortable and bored do you start the quest for greener grass or is it a never ending cycle of 'something better out there'? In my experience i find that when in a relationship i tend attract more women then when im single always having that hint of desperation....women always want what they cant have. You can also be more choosy cause you always have your bases covered. Ive been in a constant relationship for almost 5 yrs but with many different woman and often much overlap (often much hell to pay with constant lies, deciet and mistrust) is this a bad thing or is it better to just stay single and plow through until magically the girl of your dreams appears....

This is a personnal question.

1. If you are in a relationship and looking for others, then your A your relationship sucks or B not feeling ready for a relationship.

2. Good Relationships aren't about is thier greener grass, it's about connection, feelings.

You sound like gf's are bubble gum cards to be traded. That's not a good attitude to go down.

3. Don't get in a LTR unless you want it, if it's a STR "short term relationship" make sure she knows this same with FB's etc otherwise it's just selfish and unfair on her.

4. What you want and whats best for you, is decided by YOU, I do not know nor ever will know precisely how you feel about various girls etc

That is why, "should I get into a relationship" questions, their are no logical answers.

Only intrinsic ones.

LET HER GOOOO!!