For years I've had this dilemma. Out of the couple handfulls of times I have been able to attract a woman, many of those times another equally attractive girl has also started to like me and my mind gets pulled between them and I end up losing them both.

For example, I'll meet one girl at a party and start talking to her in the days following our first meeting. A week later I'll meet another girl somewhere, she'll like me, and then I get confused on which one I should keep talking to. I end up being so indecisive on which one to keep in touch with that I lose them both.

My question is: should I just suck it up and choose one girl or just talk to both of them and see where that takes me? Even though I know I'm not really involved with either of them I feel a little guilty about talking to both of them at the same time for some weird reason

talk to every girl, this helps you to start to "share the love" sorta thing, if ur used to only persuing one target at a time, try and juggle 5 to breakthrough this mental barrier of urs.

Fear and pain only mean that change is rapidly approaching, stick with it and up your game, the rest will fall into place

Yeah thats what I was guessing I had to do; it has felt like a mental road block, just gotta go through it. Thanks man

the technique is called "breaking through"

when you are going to acheive something of importance it will scare you, it will hurt and it will be hard, it wouldnt be an acheivement if not....