alright, thers this girl and im almos 99% sure she likes me
but ive never had a gf cuz im always too shy to ask the girl out
we talk a little bit but i dont really talk to her much but wenn we do ther is a connection
im really nervous about asking her on a date


ok how should i ask her out? wer should we go? (mayb a movie?)
school is almost over and i wanna ask her on a date b4 school ends

any tips? im nervous already but i dont wnna chicken out
plz help

OK, first of all you are not asking her to be your GF you are simply asking her to join you for a fun activity together. As long as she is even mildly intersted in you this shouldn't be much of a problem. I'm not sure how old you are but you sound kinda young. Just be confident and act as if its natural to spend some time with each other. If you act surprised or needy she may not be down. Have a plan for the date and make it a good one. Dont ask her what she wants to do. Have something totally awesome ready to do and bring her for the adventure. You don't even have to tell her what it is, just tell her to be ready for fun and when to be ready. Good luck out there.

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First off relax man. Shes just a human like you. She gets nervous, she shits like you, and eats like you. Remember that man. Of course she might come off as intimidating, but dude you got overcome it. After you approach her, your gonna have that Approach Anxiety leave you man. Trust me I'm 20, do it now. It will save you problems further down the road.

And don't ask her to be your girlfriend. Ask her if she wants to hang out over the summer. Catch a baseball game, go see a midnight show of a movie, take her downtown, play basketball, theres alot of stuff you can do man.

First off try to make a connection. Find out what she likes, and say you like it to. Even if its lying. Remember its not lying its flirting!

Then go for the number close. tell her you guys should hang out over the summer or something. I know theres a technique to set her up to ask you for her number.. But I forgot it so maybe another person can help out?

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that would be sick if i took her to the park to play basketball
but im thinkin more of a movie and then goin out to eat at a nearby restaurant

i dont have my license yet so i cant really take her there, would that be weird if i asked her to drive me?

hers another question, should i just get her number and then talk about were we could go later or should i ask her then and there?

also
i have one week left of school, should i wait till the last day?

now i feel confident but at school i know im gonna be scared to ask her out

Hey young man,

I am only just a noob myself but I know u shouldnt wait for the last day.

if u bet all ur money on one card.. she might be sick that day or somthing u know??
and u dont wanna take the risk of ruining ur summer cuz of that..


and also u dont wanna miss the chance of a second chance..

like if u'd talk to her soon like tomorow or somthing and u miss to ask for her number or u happen to tell somtn wrong then u wanna hav the chance to talk to her. and if I understood correctly u would not get a chance to talk to her when u wait to the last day.. also ur mind might come up with excuses on the last day why u shouldnt talk to her or somtn.. so just dont wait and let the opportuniy pass aight?

Good luck bro and my last advices.. dont stress out. everything is gonna be all good. and..
oh yeah and because of the car thing.. if you dont have a choice but riding with her...
dont make a big deal out of it.

I think if u dont mention the issue its not gone be an issue.. she'll pick u up, u tell her where u going but make sure u or she knows how to get there

Depending on how long you have known or spoken to this girl she maybe wondering what is taking you so long. Ask her out the first time you get the chance to see her.

A movie is one of the worst first dates, because most of your attention is drawn to the screen instead of each other. You say she is 99% into you but girls can lose interest in a heart beat. You want to keep that attraction do something that you enjoy the most or something you know she loves to do.You can use your hobbies to your advantage. Like myself I like to play basketball and listen to music.

So playing 1on1 of horse or a real game if she is a physical girl, Or I would take her to Barnes n Nobles and we both listen to songs together on the listening device before you buy the CD. So I mean there is a lot to do beside go to the movies.

As well as the vehicle issue, you should take the bus together and watch and make fun of some of the silly people that jump on the bus, it saves gas for her as well as the fact that she may have never rode a actually bus besides a school bus.

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Not Every girl is going to be instantly attracted to you it is what you do that makes them attracted to you.

so just ask her out to watch a movie...

for the number thing, you shouldnt just get her number and then play things from there in your case. chances are that things could fizzle out and then itd make it awkward to call. go for the money and ask her to hang out, and that way you get the both the number and a set date. then work the details from there

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get her number. invite her to run some bullshit errands with you. thats not the same type of commitment for her so she's likely to be down. once youre hanging out with her, having fun and whatnot, spontaneously tell her you want to have a cookout, go to the movies, go hiking, whatever. keep up the kino and reward good behavior and you should be all good

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Just dont do the movie and dinner thing bro.Shopping together will be a better idea than going for movies Maybe visit an ice rink . Something more adventerous, BTW laser tags are awesome for dates.

And dont leave till the last day to get her number. Decide on what u wanna do then tell her that u are gonna do this and that she should come and join u and it will be fun.

Just dont make it a big deal. If she says no, just stay cool and say may be some other time then. And get her number

hope it all goes well man . Gd luck x

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so would it be a bad idea to go up to her and say "hey, i just wanted to know if u wanted to hang out some time?" get her number and then talk about where we should go while on the phone? or just tell her then?
should i say somethin lik "i didnt want the year to end without askin you"?

she is really hot, id say about an 8.5 or 9
thanks as u can see i dont hav much experience

props to who ever said cookout, well im thinking more of a cook off by that, but yeah be adventurous. girls dig a guy whos active and is on the run. i try not to waste time pussy-footing with unoriginal dates. get creative and get enthusiastic about what you're doing.

and as for that last line? the whole 'i didnt want the year to end without askin you?' line? i wouldnt recommend it. it might come off as needy/creepy depending on a lot of things

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There's been some good advice posted here so I won't re hash it but...

In any case you want to make sure you treat the interaction as a learning experience. This is not about her. It's about you. So if she says yes, great! If she says no, at least you know what not to do in the future.

Don't get down on yourself if she says no. It just means that you try again with a different girl and different tactic. No big deal.

You gotta relax man. It's just a girl!



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