Well it has hapenned to me that i dotn hav enaythign to say, my mind is empty and i just can not htink in anything. what do you do in this suggestions, what back up plans do you have for this situations.. please help me... I try to stay confortable with the silence but after a couple minutes it gets kind of weird...

either by a book on conversation starters, or have some good topics at hand.

talk about ur interests, passions and what motivates you.

the best conversation to have with a girl is about her though, the best tip in the book and universal, get her talking about herself and ur well in

how would you make her do that? may u give me an example?

what if she is shy and she just doesnt talk about herself ?

You just need to ask insightful questions...

What did u dream of becoming when you grew up?

Whats your main passion in life?

Who is the most important person in your life?

What is your happiest memory?

these sort of questions give you genuine insight into the girl and leave u with minimal conversation input

the things above are good, remember big questions get big answers. Another thing which I have used to death is to not say anything, look slowly around the club and then slowly raise your drink to your lips and 9/10 before you get to drink or 3 seconds after she will start talking (I think Juggler talks about it kinda creating a vacuum). It is based on the idea she wants to be around you and if you look like you might leave and nothing is being said she is like fuck I need to say something this is awkward he might leave. Its good but not really for the earlier stages of an interaction.

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Thanks for the answers guys, anyone else that cna give opinions is more than welcome.