When I am around girls, I'm fine. You know, just talking and flirting and shit. But when it comes to hooking up with a girl, I am really nervous. I make it up in my mind to be such a big deal that when the time comes, I either don't recognize it or I'm so nervous that I never escalate. And then I end up kicking myself over it later, thinking why I never made the move. Do yall have any advice? Maybe a different way of thinking about it?


thanks,
jogii

In The Game, Style goes on to explain that you need to almost become a different person. Just shift gears, and "go caveman". Just go with your instincts, and you'll be fine. If you've been gaming the girl and you've got her back at your place, you're golden. Just always do push-pull; two steps forward, one step back.

One piece of advice from Mystery is to literally just not care. He can just walk away, or walk to the next set, and find someone better looking and more interesting anyways, and YOU CAN TOO! Even if you have her back at your place, you need to just experiment with what works for you. You'll never improve if you don't do that.

Jogii matte, you never make the move because your thinking about making the move!

Stop being a wusscake!

Let me use an example, it's like when you go up to a random girl you dont know. It doesn't matter how many girls you meet. Your always going to have that fear of rejection because it's hardwierd into us males.. If you think about it you'll chicken out. If instead you just walk up to her.. Your actually find your able to think pretty fucking quick when shes in front of you and you have nothing to say

It is the very same thoughts that come into your head when you go to kiss a girl and other such things.. So dont even think about it. If your fine with flirting do that and then use your other head.. This way its never a question of should i kiss her yes or no.. Just use the head that goes.. Sex or.. Sex

Opportunity is everywhere for those that look for it.
Dont let it pass you by.

Mischief

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Thanks guys. Awesome posts.