I have a love hate relationship with this form of communication, I love it because you can say some off the wall shit and still play it off no matter what, I hate it because its difficult to read emotional response etc. through texting. I have 2 HB's I have been talking to etc. Closed one, the other is her friend, and she started talking to me about a week ago, all they do is fucking text. I'm about 90% sure that I have smoked any chance I had with #2 HB, until last night. I got a message at about midnight from her referring to how much she hated being on this date she was on, this is the text verbatim from last night.
HB- On a Date...Ugh Haha!
Me- LOL..Have fun kid! ;-D
Me- That's pretty weak that you didn't invite me along on your date
HB- Really! I give up on boys!
Me- You haven't even hung out with me yet...
HB- Well I'm home watching (some show) after a God awful 1st date...yup I'm turning gay.
Me- That's a shame, good luck with that
HB- I do what I can
(At this point I want you to know that I was going to party with her last week and she pulled the "friend" card because her friend likes/liked me, so it has been a week of cat-string, trying to keep this shit up.)
Me-Stop fighting it, and hangout with me.
......No answer.....its like 230 am, I know she likes cartoons though.
Me- You ever watch South Park?
HB- Yes!
Me- Yes, your going to stop fighting it and hangout with me? Let me see if I can fit you into my schedule. HaHa.
That's the extent of it, I'm having a very difficult time trying to pull this girl in, and this isn't all about her, this is a HUGE network of friends that she's involved with and it has to do with networking as well. I know the story isn't the best but I would like to here some critics and any advice you guys have on appropriate ways to do shit through text.
Doesn't help that I loose a lot of my shit when I talk to this girl, since I have been intrigued by her for over a year, and I just got out of a LTR about 3 months ago, so it's finally game season again....
-Appitamy
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