Hi. I have a question about the dreaded Friend Zone. Suppose you're not sure if you're interested in a girl but you've demonstrated value and she's interested in you. Do you risk ending up in the FZ if you don't make the close? I was talking to this chick tonight who I think might be interested in me, but I'm not sure I'm into her and I'm concerned that if I take too much time deciding how I feel about her, I'll end up in the FZ by the time I've made up my mind. Is it okay to keep a girl on hold while you think about it or do you risk blowing it if you wait too long?

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Omeo

Hmm, eventually she will lose interest. There isn't a girl who won't do that for one or another reason. Depends on the time she's waiting and the way you are treating her. You may want to freeze her out a bit thus giving you some more time without her losing interest.

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Play2Win

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What exactly is freezing her out? I've heard this term before, but I'm not sure what it means. Is that just not paying any attention to her?

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Omeo

Listen its not about how much time, its about how she sees you. I've had chicks that I've put in my friend zone. They wanted me (they never said anything, but I could tell) and I know I could wait as long as I want and I would never end up in their friend zone. It not a matter of time, but a matter of characteristics. If you are a strong, confident, decisive, charming man; women will not put you in their friend zone. But by doing something like being afraid to make a move, or supplicating a woman with affection or gifts; make you come across as lower status man. You see it's not that you made her wait, but that you did so out of fear or indecisiveness, that will dlv you.

I had this problme once...well I ended up putting the girl in my friend zone as the guy above said. And yh there was interest for quite a long time- like around 2 or 3 months. It ended up with some guy asking her out and at first she didnt say yh, even though I knew she liked him. But I encouraged her, telling her to say yes - but she kept saying "I'll tell him after this after exams or whatever". But in the end I got quite angry and told her to tell him now - and she ended up doing it. She never told me about it, but I kinda found out.
What I am basically trying to say is, yh sure you can keep her in the freind zone as long as you keep the kino escaltion high and make sure there is sexual tension. This should buy you enough time - but dont forget there are othe guys out there as well, so you only have a certain amount of time before you lose her, so make sure you decide before she does.

Good Luck
Angelz.
p.s Freez-out: this is when you bring your game with the girl to a complete stop for a short period amount of time. You stop interacting with her for a while and this makes her anxious because she just lost your attention. This will make her want you more and come after you. And you are freezing out because you are busy with something else (like your social like ) not because you are sulking or angry. Its important you project this impression otherwise the freez-out isn't as effective. ( Lol am sure there are people who disagree with my defintion, am I am open to them corecting me. Thank you)

Exactly...

Girls will place you in one of two categories, the Friend Zone, or the 'guy i would bang if given the chance' zone. Neither one has anything to do with time.

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