I personally don't find them repeating negs to their friends in front of me. I'm sure they all talk about what was said and what happened behind closed doors with their girl friends. And yes, it seems that most girls do seek "the okay" from their friends when talking to guys. I wouldn't worry about it or see it as a problem. If she stuck around and kept conversing with you then you did fine - I mean you did get the number.
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If she doesn't answer your texts then you have a problem.
I would see this as her loss, not mine. Now she's the one missing out on a fun person to be around and a great guy.