I don't know......but I'm just not the type to try to take someone who's in a relationship. To each their own, k?

You made no sense at all after the second sentence =/

Well, if a guy can't maintain woman's interest in him, it's his own fault when she's being picked up by other. If her BF was a good player, he would know what to do to keep her by his side.

There's no fucking way a man can "reserve" a female and expect from her, she will be always his, regardless of what he does, if he cares about her and so on. The rights of the jungle are merciless - you are weaker, someone could beat you and prove more attractive in woman's eyes - she will choose him.

Anyway, nobody forces woman to being curious of you, to tolerate your games. It's always her own decision. You only give her a new possibility, right?

something relevant... about a week or so ago i went to the beach with my friends to meet up with some girls i know and one i used to get with well we get there and they,re with a hb9 maybe 10 ive never met long story short we had a good time we were attracted to each other we all went back to my house and smoked a little bit they left. later on one of the girls threw a party we went the hb 9 maybe 10 was sitting in my lap flirting when the bf walks in the backyard they start fighting i walk away he takes her home. we all hang out again at my house a couple of days ago and i tried to kiss her and she rejected me however she texts me all day everyday since then tells me she is attracted to me that she would get with me iff she didnt have a boyfriend blah blah blah it seems like they have a good relationship not ending anytime soon that i can tell yet she wants to keep me around she is trying to hang out with me again this weekend it will probably be with her girl friends and my guy friends...how do i play it?

i found out yesterday the girl i used to hook up withhooked this girl up with her current boyfriend who is her best friend may be why she didnt kiss me around her. this call also told me that the girl i used to hook up with told her not to mess with me because i "play games" and this girl has been talking to me and told me not to tell her friends because they dont know. i think we're hanging out tonight if no one responds i'm just gonna go for it again

BF destroying is simple when it comes to relationships.

Express on your emotional side how you feel that you two are better together than apart.

EASY EASY EASY.

For hook ups, she will not split up with her BF just to have sex with you, so just keep the bf out of the frame, remove him from the equation by not talking about him, or when he is brought up, use the above technique to appeal to the emotional side, but with relation to hooking up.

Obviously if you are using a bf destroyer then you probably feel reasonably strongly about the girl.


Now ethics.....

Why would you use bf destroyers?

To get a girl you want, to get a girl who would be better with you than her.

Getting girls from their BF's is not inherintly bad, neither is it inherintly good.

As for those of you who say... "their are plenty of single girls"


Maybe one day you will understand.


Edit: Daishi, Jaybot, I really dislike yur attitudes, you guys are going to end up causing alot of pain in this world, if you keep that mindset.

Daishi, if your friends didn't respect your choice to not cheat with a girl, I wouldn't call them friends....

HI mates,

Ive got this girl. Shes pretty, shes nice..and shes taken ofcourse. I talked to her, went out with her one time (I should have read the forum before I went out with her) She told about her problems with her guy. It went fine. She glanced at me even after I had dropped her of in an interesting way. Then I think I started to care for her a bit too much. Shes a nice girl with a sad history. Her guy is a real idiot. I wouldn`t try anything if she would be in a better relationship. Well things started going a bit worse. I was mostly contacting her. Yesterday I tried out the technique of telling that shes in a perfect relationship where she can handle problems and get along (She has problems pretty often) I also told her that i wasnt so attracted to her as maybe some time ago so she cold tell her BF to cool down..(He is ofcourse mad as hell with me but i couldnt care less..) Well I acted straight by the scheme and today she started texting me from work.. I took it as an IOI.. But guys id need some advice with what could be good to continue with... If I loose I loose, but the "your in a good relationship" - technique seemed to be a pretty powerful thing... Id need some advice how i could carry on...? I know i should use feelings...Shes a pretty emotional person..

thx

mpua. info/anti_amog. html

That was a pretty good link thanks, but still need help...

BF destroyers, logically sound like a good idea. But in reality, they're useless. In reality they just amplify the fact that she has a BF and he is now permently anchored in her mind whenever she thinks of you. Barriers create attraction. When you use BF destroyers you are breaking down barriers.

You can take a girl away from her BF, no problem. But BF destroyers are not the way the way to do it. They are officially among the most lame things that the community has come up with.

Stop using them.


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Your correct that their is a risk in anchoring the bf to you, but I the way I look at the BF destroyer is essentially giving a justification for her behaviour. It's an attempt to rationalise it her hooking up with you.

It's only one part of getting rid of a bf, really the bf destroyer should be called a, "provided justification" or something along those lines.

Your thoughts?

i'm in 2 minds when it comes to this.

on the one side i feel that it's pretty cunt to steal a chick (but that's probably because i know what the dude on the receiving end feels like after having been there myself)
and the other side is a bit more apathetic. if i'm better than the other guy then i win. simple as that.

btw - that "nobody cared about stealing my girl, why should i care about stealing someone else's" is quite a crap mentality. stop holding onto the past.