Made me tear up. Kudos man. Kudos.

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Giovanni

You know what I hate?

The term Asian-American. When are we going to give up the silly PC, self segregating, self limiting, and defining (sometimes defeating) labels we put on ourselves and others. if you were born here then you are simply American. Going farther, you are simply human.

When you really dig deep down you are simply MAN.

All the things in your past matter none to the man you make yourself to be today.

All the self affirming or self defeating comments you make to your ethnicity only serve to trap you into a cycle of self limiting behaviors that are inevitably detrimental in your quest to become a more complete person.

Look guys. I understand the issues that many face here. I am of mixed ethnicity (Russian/White, and Filipino/Chinese) and I can tell you first hand, living in an area with high concentrations of 'white' people and 'asian' people that I was not well liked by other side. I had friends but generally had a very hard time fitting in during high school. I had depression, and constantly battled self esteem issues. To this day I still have to check myself but I am much better off then I once was. But their dislike of me had very little to do with my asianness, I just used that as an excuse, because it was too hard for me to say, there is something wrong with my personality. It had to be something I couldn't control.

But the past doesn't define who I am today.

Guess what?

I know smarter people than me who are not asian
My best friend is a better fighter than me and he's latin
There are people out there with smaller dicks than me and they are not asian
I do not relate to chinese or Filipino culture at all.

I am American


None of that shit matters guys, You matter, and what you think about yourself matters.

Your ethic makeup does not matter. Nothing matters, only what you choose to do with it.

Rambling, rambling, rambling...

I just thought, as one of the fellow slanted eye forum members to weigh in here.

Get over the stereotypes and ethnic dogmas, and just be. I love you guys, you should love you guys too.

lol

PS. Penis size doesn't matter.

The whole "small penis" thing must suck though. No wonder Asian guys always go to the shitter instead of the urinals when they need to empty Captain Winkey.

ive never met an asian more shy than a white guy but if they blame it on there culture then in my opinion there just looking for something to blame.

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Go instead where there is no path and leave a trail.

what the fuck?

half asian/black

use it to my advantage since most guys are white. (Not racist)

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In order to succeed, the desire for success must be greater than the fear of failure

lol "you kinda resemble a pornstar i know

not saying its a bad thing

because i'd fuck both of you"

this thread is tearing me up ... having a small or big dick doesn't make any difference if you can't take a pussy home with you. And the greater things in life never rested on how fat your cock is.

I don't know, maybe Im speaking as somebody that doesn't have any issues with my size.

That's what I'm talking about.
I'm black and everything has it's advantages and disadvantages. Try to use advantages to your advantage(for example chicks dig my dancing) and yes also disadvantages can be used to your advantage.

peace

This is starting to annoy me.

Why bother about all these things? Penis size, skin color, origins... None of that matters if you know how to behave and carry yourself. (Yes, I mean if you got game in PUA lingo!)

If I wanted, I could come up with a dozen reasons why I would be less successful with girls than every other guy. Overbite, racially challenged, glasses, nerd, crappy car, not being rich, not being a native speaker, shabby, bad breath, bad karma, insecure, social misfit, genetically inferior, manodepressive, thin legs... Etc Etc. If I am honest, not all of these are true, come on, how could they. They are only true if I believe them!

Do you think I let ANY of the above reasons hold ME back????? WHY on earth would I do that??? These kind of things only have power if you let them.

If you find that being asian is a problem, then you are talking to the wrong girl.
Why would you want to be with a racist woman in the first place?

Rightyo....this post was more to flip the script on the negative viewers more than as a "follow these methods and you can sleep with many women" type of thing. Don't have time now to respond to all the comments...but...will try...later.

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The hotter they are, the harder they fall....for me.

I lol'd when I read this.

Everyone - away from your keyboards go grab some poon tonight!

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"This is your reality. It is what you make it"

What the fuck is this bullshit?

There will always be somebody better looking, richer, and taller than you, so why are we even bringing any of this up.

All of these things have zero play in pulling pussy, as long as you remain faithful to who you are.

Wear the shit you want, work the job you want, look the way you want.

Boom. That's all you need to even create attraction. The rest is dependent on your "game", aka, the shit being projected outwards based on who you are inside.



Close this fucking thread.

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I'm addicted to facing my fears.

White chicks? Haha now why would I want them when I have the home field advantage with most sought after demographic of women -- Asian Chicks!

I am an Asian PUA and I think this thread is silly. You don't have to bury your ethnic identity to be successful with women, nor do you have to aspire to some silly stereotype wearing a kimono and carrying a platter of sushi around with you. Just be yourself. If being Asian and doing Asian things are a part of who you are then be that. It's no different than being a musician or being good at sports. If it's a part of you embrace it. I am a successful PUA not because of my ethnicity, or in spite of a perceived ethnic handicap. I am successful because I dedicate myself to my craft, I am passionate about what I do, and I am pretty damn good at doing it.

This thread while nice in theory does not serve any purpose. Asians do not need any pick-me-ups or soft touch compliments to help them with their self-esteem or game. Shame on you for thinking any of us did.

the only thing i have to say in this thread is that asian guys are asian guys, do you!!! (i'm half asian, half white).

but asian women, well the attractive ones seem to be drawn to white guys, from my experiences.

but this is only my experience (uk), and maybe i've gamed them totally wrong, so meh.