I've been in the Game a while, I even made some major improvements to myself for a while. But lately I've been on a down cycle.

I mostly joined this forum because I'm on a constant search for possible wings in the area of Kalamazoo MI. There don't seem to be any, anywhere. I wanted to be able to use the 'find a wing' section of this forum. Does anyone know any better ways to find wings?

hey im isaiah great to meet you

well if ur looking for you wing then u found one right now nah im jus playing well so wat happened how did u fall in a downslope oh and to answer ur other question how about ur friends as your wingman u know them really well and u trust them remember to tell him the wing rules
1. HE WHO OPENS THE SET LEADS THE SET: he gets the first choice of target and your wing could open for you
2.MAKE UR PURPOSE AS WING TO HELP THE PUA GET TARGET
3. NEVER JACK THE SET
4.THE WING SHOULD ALWAYS OCCUPY THE OBSTACLES
5.ALWAYS AGREE WITH THE WING
6 DNT TAKE GIRLS SIDE OVER UR WING
7. UR WING IS A COO GUY

Hi Isiah, I'm Will. I don't understand, are you saying you want to be my wing?

Too answer your question, a few things happened.

the first was I had surgery that was supposed to end the chronic pain in my foot. The surgery instead make every thing worse, I walk with a more pronounce limp than I did before and I am in almost constant pain. Every second of every day.

The second was, for several reasons, I am no longer able to drive to game with my PUA friends in Grand Rapids. I know several PUA's but they live nearly an hours drive away from me. i used to commute to train with them, but it got to expensive and my schedule got too crowded, it's amazing I made it work as long as I did. My PUA friends were my support system, they were the best friends I ever had. They gave me valuable specific advice, and even more important they believed in me, they helped me build my self esteem. I need to have people like that where I actually live, that's why I'm so desperate to find wings in my home town.

The third thing that happened is that I was diagnosed with Asperger's syndrome. Asperbergs syndrome is similar to autism, it is characterised by difficult social interactions and trouble decoding human behavior. People with Aspergers often have great difficulty interpreting facial expressions or even telling one person from another. That part is completely true for me, I can't tell people apart, I won't recognize people I knew for years, it's wierd.

When I was diagnosed, it changed my frame. Everything seems so hopeless now. I feel like I was born with a defective brain, and I can't fix the problem, Im just cursed.

I know that is a stupid frame and I should kick my butt to get back to work, but I am struggling. I just can't keep up the energy to do this all the time.