okay, uhm...well m shy and quiet, and i like this one HOT girl at my school, she doesn't think she's hot but she really is, so my friends told her FRESHMAN year that i liked her, and she just kept saying "idk" or w/e. We barely talk but this year, I kept complimenting her, being sweet, and helping her with stuff. January till about March she had a bf, but they broke-up. So now she is single, but she told my friends that "I didn't try hard enough, and I'm too shy." and she also told them for me to stop trying and move on...so we have about 3 more weeks of school...and i was thinking. since we have no school over the summer which is 3 months, i come back in Junior year and try again to get her...but how do i get this girl?
she thinks im, shy, quiet, but cute, nice, sweet.
and my friends already told her a LONG time ago that i liked her.
and she told them to tell me to move on and stop trying, but i was basically being a kiss-ass.

Stop being a kiss ass. Act like you're not interested in her; make her compete for you. Become more social, be extremely forward and fun and make a lot of friends. Win over your target's friends to gain their approval. Even hit on some of your target's friends to make her compete for you. You have all summer to become a new more social person, good luck.

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Yo homie. She doesn't dig you, yet. Don't talk to her all summer. Work on refining-not changing your image. Be chatty everyday, meet new people. Hang with new girls. Don't try and just let life flow. If you have any additional questions pm me.

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They call me The Bandit because I've been know to steal a few hearts.

Hey Ivan, I have a LOT of very specific and detailed advice for you because I was in the exact same situation back in high school. To not bore you with details, I'll skip to the end: I banged her! haha. I could of dated her, but by the time I f-closed, I was already over her. I really just did it to prove to myself that I could. PM me and i'll do what I can to help you out.

-Zeus

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One-Itis. You need to move on man. You've known her for a long time and you're definitely thinking too much for ways to "get her back." The best thing to do for you is to just let it go. This is a bit unhealthy, and I never advocate going for high school crushes, look I know you're young but this is a really important step in improving.

the pick up techniques here do not always (or usually) apply because these are young girls and there still in hs.

sorry champ I came on to learn from adult and give advice to adults your still a kid man I suggest you just go with the flow of school and have fun while it lasts leave the game for a couple years then try and become a PUA but I doubt your gonna listen so goodluck with what you decide to do

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C'mon man, 15 is ok age to start. After all, it's better than being a virgin till 20-something and then discovering the community. We are all here to learn how to be better socially - and that's a good thing, no matter the age. Plus, once you have discovered PU, there's almost no turning back. Yeah - if he wants to quit - ok. But If the boy tries to do his best to learn "the game" , it's not possible or normal to stop him.

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well thats ur opionion dude I just gave mine and I think 15 should be out having fun not entangling himself in learning the specifics of the game but if he chooses to thats his decision I just think people are better rounded if they experience life before they try and disect it

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Listen it's very simple at your age, you just can't see it. If you want her, go get her. Don't try to win her over or persuade her, just get her. Just be direct and ask her on a date (or whatever the high school equivalent is nowadays). Don't worry about how you look or the repercussions because that's all bullshit you will forget in a week.

Your problem is the same that most of us had. You assume that women are somehow greater than you and you must earn their affection. She's just some chick. Your life won't end one way or another. But what will haunt you for years is all the chances you passed up because you were too scared to act. I remember being 15 and being in puppy love with a super hot girl, and looking back my greatest regret is I never asked her out because years later she told me she used to have a crush on me when I was 15, but I was just too blind to see it back then.

These are suppose to be the best years of your life. You can do whatever you want and there really isn't any consequences (excluding teen pregnancy and stds of course). Youth really is wasted on the young. Enjoy it while you still can.