I met this older chick I had picked up for the first time; 42, divorced, single mom, nurse. Might not be the taste for some guys on this board, but if you've been with a lot of women you might know that single moms are some of the best lays around. Women in their 40's provide incredible lays. And nurses? What can I say, they're usually good in the sack too. You add all those factors together and I'm game.

She was slim, dressed conservatively, looked her age or older and rather quiet. Honestly, we didn't have much to talk about on our first date which I arranged to be only about 30 minutes long. Her quietness was not a problem though. My game doesn't revolve around conversation. I did my usual ice breaker line and then started with the kino. I kissed her up and down her neck and behind the ear. She loved it. I stayed away from her mouth cause she told me she was having a Herpes outbreak.

I ended the date and told her I would contact her again.

Second date was going to be today. I knew I could f-close--she had given me all the signs. In fact, I just bluntly said in an email, "Let's go and relax somewhere private." She said she was okay with that. I was planning on taking her to a hotel.

I was supposed to meet her at 2:30. I had about an hour after work to chill out before going to meet her. I couldn't get the Herpes thing out of my head. I figured I could wear a condom and everything would be alright. I googled Herpes. The more I read about it the less motivated I was feeling to meet up with her.

At 2:00pm I emailed her saying I had to cancel. I didn't give her a reason why, but I apologized for cancelling suddenly. Seemed like she had had this experience before. She replied, "Okay, I understand."

Man, I felt bad being such a dick and cancelling like that. She would have been a good fuck and she seemed like a nice girl. I just don't think I could have enjoyed it though. You know, the old me would have fucked her. But I guess I've changed these days. I'm kind of glad that I at least have some self-control when it comes to the pussy.

Herpes?...

Man, really, what a great use of common sense.

Better stay away from STDs. You dont wanna know how that herpes got to her mouth in the first place.
I wouldnt recomend you to keep dating this woman in particular, she seems to have a lot of experience, maybe more than you need.

And shes got this STD and as you said, "it Seemed like she had had this experience before."

does that strike you as "shes not the kind of person that protects herself or at least her sexual parthner"..

better stay away from her.

You dont wanna wake up next to her one morning and find out that the herpes was gone, but what?.. she was going tru aN AIDS break out??? hahah

anyways man,great use of common sense and self control.

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