HB punish is the name my wing and i have given to one of the hardest girls Ive ever come across also one of the most sexiest natural looking girls


this girl has all the qualities i look for in a girl . beauty, class, a good career very smart and a great sense in fashion.


now i met her 7 months ago in a night club number closed and texted back and fourth that night.

day 2 we texted a little back and fourth so i could get some info out of her as i had a big night after i rolled off and couldnt remember half the convo we had that night

then the messages stopped it was weird but im not one to chase to hard and forgot about her a lil

7 months later i was seeing a stripper that i didnt much care about when HB punish found me on facebook turned out her dog destroyed her phone and she lost my number
we organized a date.

date 1 was quite good im am good with conversation and rarely run out of things to say so i was able to keep it flowing to the best of my ability she seemed shy and awkward i could sense that the kiss close was not on at any point as she was just way to shy at this point .


following week
she for some reason found out about my stripper G/F and was pretty pissed off
i managed to talk my way around it and she apologized to me (i thought that was pretty funny since i did the wrong thing not her lol)

so i left my g/f and organized to meet up a second time after some boring phone convo any time i use anything intresting in a convo she shuts it out and changes topic to something boring this girl with all the goods seems to have no personality at all she is BORING
so i asked her out for coffee she says she cant be bothered going out and did i want to come over to her apartment and watch a movie and hang out now that is what i would normally organize at my place for a third date / Fclose
so i travel to hers unsure of what was going to happen.
i get to her place and she says she dosent want to watch her room mates tv its shit and to come up to her room given i havent built any confort and now im going to her bedroom a seduction location i was in strange limbo

we are in her bed i try some slight keno here and there but nothing
she puts a movie on . during the movie i strike up a covo but again i couldnt draw it to a sexual nature or anything interesting as she started giving running commentary on the movie we were watching (twlight) not recommend you would rather punch your self in the mouth for 3 hrs to avoid watching it.

i moved closer but she didnt react very well it became weirder for me she just had some sort of boring personality and wont open up i find it irritating that i cant keep a interesting convo going with this one then to top it off

SHE FALLS ASLEEP in the bed right next to me before ive even had a chance to make a move
i text my wing to see his thoughts on what happens from here ideas were
: 1)spoon her
2)fall asleep in her bed
3)wake her up and neg her for sleeping then kiss close
4)get up let your self out
5)wake her up asks to be let out. make out as if i am a gentlemen

well i was unsure but i went with number 3) but the negs wernt responsive infact there was no response at all like i hadnt even said them so i went with NO5)

she texted me on my way home saying (everything ok ? )
i replied with yeah i just felt a lil creepy being in ur bed wen u were asleep.

HB punish : you should of stayed i didnt think u were creepy.

i was not impressed common manners is to invite me i should of said that but i was gutted that i just didnt pull the trigger even if it wasnt on being blown out would have been better then nothing

so i called a few days later again a punish of a convo
i have decided to let this cold fish defrost and make her chase me instead in the hope that her personality come out some how.
my theory is that i have given her so much attention for like 2 months and she has been nothing but a boring pain in the ass so if i give her the same she has given me she might see how it feels so im not replying to her texts like she did to some of mine and cancel some dates or plans start to let my interest fade as i know she dose like me this is more of a long term freeze out process(she message saying something like (i really enjoy talking to you your so easy to talk to )

i thought yeah i am shame you fucking not lol

im open to any thoughts or suggestions so guys comment as much as u can

f.l.a.k.e.s.t.e.r.
i had a girl awhile back, I took home WITHIN 60 min's of meeting at a bar: she grabbed me by the collar and bit me on the neck as her opener. we didn't fuck. we went on a date and she was in a shitty mood.
some chicks just honestly aren't worth the perpetual snowdrift of flakiness they carry with them at all times.

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Look man if you can't hold a decent conversation with a girl than really what's the point. If she is shy than maybe she needs time to get to know you before she opens up a bit more.

I want a girl who see's life in a similar way as me. I want a girl who questions life and inspires me to think beyond reality. So far I have only found one. We used to sit together in my car on top of the highest mountain and stare into the nightsky. We would completely lose ourselves in conversation to a point where we would buzz. This girl inspired me to live and love with a passion so great that nothing else really mattered. If you can't experience this with a girl than move on until you find one that you can.

Can you take this bird out to a bar or something, maybe one or two drinks will get her to loosen up and have a bit of fun. If she still doesn't show any personality, move on dude.

thanks for all the input guys just an update on how it went



i changed my semi nice guy approach and was cold for a bit towards her she became a little more responsive to that then it turned to bitchiness and i figured id go in hard and make or break her so. I put it to her that if she cant communicate with someone like an adult and hold a two way convo then shes not the person im looking for. i said something like her good looks will only get her so far as beauty is common (thanks mystery lol)but personality is a virtue and if she cant learn to be social towards people or me then she will forever find it hard to meet a guy that will like her for more then her looks.
she did chase for a little bit but in the end she just wasnt worth the effort and i move fast new girls each week so i wasnt going to waste my time on her any more it was more the challenge to bring her personality out but it seems clear that there was no personality and i was fighting a loosing battle

shame she was really hot to lol