Been seing this girl since the middle of march this year.
She was just out of a long term relationship when we 1st hooked up.
For about a month she was txting me all the time and coming over to mine a lot and obv we had sex.
About a week ago I asked her what was happening with us and she said she liked me but wanted to keep things casual as her head was a mess after splitting up with her boyfriend.
I said that this was fine and I really liked her.
The problem is I do really like her and think about her a lot of the time.
After this chat we had she is a bit more distant with me, she has stayed over a few times but we have not had sex. She lets me play around with her but it isnt progressing to sex anymore. She doesnt txt me as much either.
She gets a lot of attention from guys as she is pretty good looking and I think she loves the attention.
She stayed last night and we had a few drinks and she initiated the kissing etc but when we went to bed, it didnt progress to sex, in fact she hardly even touched me.
I am begining to wander if it is best for me to call things off before I fall in love with her.
Basically I think things are getting a bit stale and I need a way of re-igniting the spark.
I dont think she is sleeping with anyone else at the minute.
Any help would be great.
Oh im 26 she is 23

Oh oh here she comes, shes a man eater...


Yeah, Ive been there done that. Forget about her, she is not worth the trouble. She is trying to ease her way out of your relation that was really going to be just occasional sex...

Now, I know what you are gonna say, no but you dont understand this is special.

Well, they are all special. Mine was too. And we all think that it is something more there. We all think that we have so good connections, so emotionally great together, such wonderful understanding. Yes, that is what keeps you around isnt it? Well, its not gonna be enough, its just gonna make it worse when you realize that you cant even keep her as a friend. Get out while you still can, she is not worth the pain to lose in the slow painful way.

Ezo

Ezo,

Thankyou for the reply.

I think you are right

I do think though that maybe she does like me but wants to keep her options open or maybe she just likes the idea of having someone around as she is prob lonely.

She is out drinking tonight with her friends and I am heading out to a different place with my mates so might just try and get some new girl, that will prob help.

Its just so annoying as I am finding myself over annalysing every txt etc from her and its ruining me lol