There are these two women whom I've been with (not in a life time just generally) Both of which I've slept with, I was friends with them before, not good friends but we knew each other either through work (we dont work together any longer) or mutual friends.... After i was with them they told me they had a great time and enjoyed themselves and told their friends how they loved being with me and are very attracted to me and want more,but r scared to hang out with me because they know where it will lead. we speak via aim, facebook myspace or text, but they just won't meet up with me. I definitely want to continue hooking up with them as they themselves are awesome to hangout with and hook up with ... any suggestions??

They are afraid it will lead to a mutual relationship or are they afraid that they will merely be one pony on your merry-go-round?

Understandable, but what should I do, say or suggest to see them again? If they wanted nothing from me the wouldnt still keep in touch so im at a lost.... and i dont think being blunt will work either..... will it?

Huh? You didn't answer my question yet. What do you think they are afraid of?

i dunno.... one maybe merry go round.... the other possibly both

Relax and be a "big guy". Stop contacting them with, "Wanna hang out?"

"Wanna hang out" . . ."Let's go do something?" . . . "Let's meet up! . . . Stuff like this all lead to one thing and they know it.

Instead shot gunning random invites, focus on fun chats for the sake of the chat. (You've already fucked them so the rules are a bit different) Then ANY fun chat can easily transition to a "get together". For example:

"Hey, did you hear about ____'s party? It was crazy. Blah, blah, blah . . . And ______ is having a party this Friday. I'm definitely going. You in?" (Girls you've already fucked know that this TOO will lead to one thing but in when you do it this way, you give them a "lady like" path to your cock.

In her mind she goes, "I didn't go there to suck ""BigGuy's cock! I just went to the cool ass party! . . ."

If they don't buy in for the first "fun invite" . . . just keep your cool and keep going this route. They'll join you sooner or later.

kasabi...Thanks a million.... u were right on with what im doing.... I'll just play the friend playful path for a while and keep off of the lets hang out rejections!!! I've been out of the game for a while so if u ever want to go sarging in NYC let me know!!! Thanks a million!!!