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| Mickstyle | PostPosted: Tue May 12, 2009 9:54 am | |
| Offline | | New to MPUA Forum | Joined: Tue Mar 24, 2009 3:12 pm Posts: 19 | | I have never had to be LJBF a girl because I've been pleased with my hook ups thus far in life and would show any one of my friends a picture of the girls i been with. Last Thursday i went out to the club ( college town club mind you) making small talk with girls at the bar or saying hi to friends and meeting new people. I get blown out by a two set but continue my voyage. Eventually i see my buddy talking to a girl i slightly know who has a friend with her i make my way over to them . immediately the friend is giving me IOI's and her body language was a dead giveaway. I am pretty drunk at this point. I kino with the friend and end up dancing with her and making out. She had a great energy about her is what i remember. I end of taking her home and fooling around no F-close but you cant win em all. She gives me her number and leaves. We text a little bit and eventually she makes me lunch and i head over to her place before work. After hanging out i leave and only mean to give her a hug but she kisses me. After leaving and being sober i realize im not very physically attracted to her and she seems kinda low confidence. But i like her personality and energy. I could see her as a friend. Any pointers in executing the LJBF ?
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| Zikki | PostPosted: Tue May 12, 2009 10:19 am | |
| Offline | | MPUA Forum Zealot | Joined: Tue Mar 17, 2009 12:19 pm Posts: 398 Location: UK | | lol novel concept...
Why dont u just do what most guys do to get in LJBF zone? Act like an AFC tool, become unnattractive to her.
You could just be a man and tell her u Just want to be friends.... just say u really interested in sum1 else, or that you really enjoy being social with her but not intimate, it dont feel right...
She cant knock u for honesty, n if she cant take it, she wouldnt make good friend material neway
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| KristallNachte | PostPosted: Tue May 12, 2009 3:06 pm | |
| Offline | | PUA Forum Leader |  | Joined: Sat Jan 31, 2009 12:30 am Posts: 1800 Location: Kintown, Okinawa, Japan | | its funny how you ask how to LJBF, when the term LJBF answers that entire question.
"Let's just be friends" say it _________________ Every Saint has a Past, Every Sinner has a Future

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| Killians | PostPosted: Tue May 12, 2009 3:49 pm | |
| Offline | | MPUA Forum Zealot |  | Joined: Wed Apr 09, 2008 6:09 am Posts: 426 Location: U.S | | Whatever you do don't dance around the subject by saying things like "I am not looking for a gf right now" or whatnot. Those comments make a woman think that she has a chance down the road. Also, there is no point in acting like either an AFC or asshole. Behaving that way can totally backfire on you and seriously there is no need to play games. Tell her and make it clear that you just want to be friends. _________________ "To Give anything less than your best is to sacrifice the gift" -Prefontaine
Not a PUA just a girl offering my opinions/advice
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| Mickstyle | PostPosted: Wed May 13, 2009 2:46 am | |
| Offline | | New to MPUA Forum | Joined: Tue Mar 24, 2009 3:12 pm Posts: 19 | | haha ,zikki acting like an AFC tool just doesnt come naturally to me and faking the funk isnt me being real that would be too AFC for my liking. I think i'll just tell her i only wanna be a friends and she's cool and i like her, just not in an intimate way. good look fellas.
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| Zikki | PostPosted: Wed May 13, 2009 10:07 am | |
| Offline | | MPUA Forum Zealot | Joined: Tue Mar 17, 2009 12:19 pm Posts: 398 Location: UK | | yeah mate why not...
Just be careful tho coz if u r 2 direct she might read it as a shit test init, like u jus negged her saying u wouldnt date her, then she will fight for ur attention to prove she good enough for u....
B really really careful mate, make it crystal clear u r going to see people u jus dont want to see her
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