I'm in college now, and I've wanted to get with this girl since high school, who happens to go to the same college as I do. Over the course of the year, we've pretty much become inseparable. We hang out with a small group regularly, consisting of like three guys and four girls.The girl was "the hot girl" everyone wanted in high school. We go out to the bar and drink and have a great time. But over the past month when she gets drunk, she comes running up to me and kisses me. It's happened like three times in the past month. We've always had kind of a flirty friendship, but I figured it's been accepted that nothing else would happen. What do I do? How do I approach something like this? I don't want to mess things up because I had a hunch that maybe she did want to fuck.

if she runs up to you and kisses you when she is drunk is it passionate or wow your myfriend and I am drunk and I love you to death as a friend kiss? remember alcohol takes away all restricting factors that our sober consciousness stops us from saying or doing.
Personally I would be kissing her back and if she backs away pretend to be drunker than you are and pretend you don't remember it and playfully throw it back at her when she brings it up by saying you wish or in your dreams girl literally by the sounds of it. If she doesn't pull away take it all the way.

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I know exactly what you mean!

I got this one girl, a real cocktease, we are very good friends and sometimes it leads to kissing and cuddling but seldom more than that, even though we are both tempted. This girl is my definition of sex, lust made flesh.

So what does this boil down to?

I think that people fall into different cathegories. Some people are stronger in attraction, some are stronger in comfort and some are stronger in seduction. Ok this follows the M3 model but thats not what I mean, I mean also girls...

It is possible that you have got a strong seductive streak, I dont know you but thats what I am suspecting about myself and I recognize your problem from my own life.


Do you ever find yourself with a girl that you have decided just to be friends with, she told you that she is not attracted enough and does not want anything more than friendship... Just to 5 minutes later ending up in bed with her... And afterwards she cannot explain why she did it? She just couldnt help herself.

If this seems familiar to you I think that you just sometimes take a shortcut, skip, all game and just go on raw lust. Maybe you already have attraction and comfort, maybe not. Anyway remember that it is possible to seduce a girl without attraction or comfort but it is not to recommend... It does not give you anything more than a nice shag...

Maybe u should try this:

Tell this to her..

you- (name)I decide to stop our friendship
girl- Why?
you- because i start to loving you as my girl

sense her after saying this whether she likes it or not, if not just smile and say "joke"

hmmmm this is just me but I would totally disregard the above post

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Eeeeeer..... I have to use my superpowers to stress my response.... NO!

This is needy, desperate, lame, AFC, patethic, blackmailing, not funny, not cute... Please someone take over filling in this list...

continueing on with Ezo's list I would add childish, immature, stupid and clingy but I think Ezo used the 2 best words to describe that option pathetic and lame.

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