Hey i've just watched the final episode and in the first challenge both contestants used a trust test for a k-close. Can any of you guys break it down because I haven't read or seen anything on it before and most parts must have been edited out on the show. Thanks,

Jmac

@jmac,

Trust test is a powerful thing.

TRUST TEST
You may announce the trust test by saying playfully to her: "although you seem a like a spontaneous person, I have a feeling that your are kind of reserved sometimes. But I am going to test you to be sure. You are taking the trust test".

Now you extend your both hands towards her and tell to take your hands (height=somewhere your chest). You squeeze her hands a little bit, notice if she squeezes back and lower slowly (but release the grip) your hands to the level of your stomach or whatever. While you slowly pull away down, you will notice if she is following you. If she does follow, than you know she is comfortable. Hold it a second and look her in her eyes, release and just tell: 'Oke, you passed'. If she doesn't follow, tell her she failed. She will ask why. Don't answer but get into another routine (no kino). After some time, run another kino test (for example again the trust test'. (Either though she did the trust test once, she will be open to it again because you pulled back when she asked why she failed).

You may follow up with the kiss test. Do this only if she easily passes other types of kino escalating tests (trust test, tension test, etc). Or if you have not run other kino test, than run them after the trust test. At any rate, escalate enough kino before firing the kiss test at her. Here is the kiss test:

Take her hands (she will be open for this if she passed other kino tests comfortably). If she says why, abort and tell her playfully: "you ask to much, don't bother". At this point, she may say: "ok" and extend her arms/hands towards you. If she does not, get in to another routine (i.e. negging): you have not done enough kino, she is not in the comfort zone yet.

Here is the KISS TEST:

You: 'On scale 1 to 10, what kind of kisser do you think you are?' (you do this after she accepted your hands)
She: 1. 'oh, I don't know' (laughing)
2. '10 (or 9 or 8..)'
3. freezes, releases hands...

If the kino before the kiss test went well, 1 or 2 will be her answer in 99% of cases. If 1 is the answer, say: 'Let's find out then' and kiss her. If 2 is the answer, you just kiss her. Answer 3 should never happen but if it does, just pull back and pretend nothing happened and get into a story telling routine.

Okey, here you have got much more than you asked, but remember that when you kino escalate properly, kissing a girl is so easy.

Thanks a lot gamer_nl, much appreciated!! I'll give it a few goes this weekend if I get the chance.

Jmac