I have always liked to use a little holier than thou in environments when I have massive social proof (think of it like how the 'untouchable' women roll). But last night I took it to a beautiful new level by actively rejecting women. Like "pffft just go" and it turns out it works deliciously well.

Long story short, I have liked a bar maid for months and been blown out a couple of times by her. So last night she serves me I ask her something, then I immediately tell her I don't like her answer and tell her to get on her way. Sure enough for the rest of the night I was getting IOIs.

So yar folks you mission for next time you have massive social proof sorted is to reject a girl for a tiny reason (you want to convey you can be picky). Maybe reject a girl because she is left handed or just straight blow her out. Quick word of warning, I am pretty sure this will only work for hot women and you will need to calibrate how much of an asshole you can be by who is within earshot and the target.

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Are you not just effectively describing negging??

Insult or offend the girl to captivate her attention?

I think he is describing something more overt, a neg is underhand, not clear.. it's left to play on the other persons insecurities, where as this blow out tactic, I have used a couple of times, is more about a clear cut statement of disinterest.


I prefer using it in Long Term sarging, where you are sarging a girl over a long period of time, usually for logistical reasons and the girl has grown disinterested, blowing her out, when done tactfully is a good way to wipe the slate clean and make her think twice about where she stands with you. It refreshes everything and takes doors that were closed and opens them.

Yup I meant it the way Fin said kinda using it on people you will see often to create attraction loops. But yar not a neg this is a blow out.

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i have done this before on accident, but not with a girl i see frequently like you guys. just some random chick at a party which would have surely made me loose my target that i brought to the party and i had been gaming for a few days. it boosted my targets attraction level because, like jay said, it conveys that you are picky and wont simply settle for anything (and im my situation that im not a player that will try to pick up any chick i see, which my target previously believed).

it definitely works and i might start doing it on purpose. the only thing to watch out for is the cockiness factor. if youre a dick, or dont have enough social proof, or are blatantly rude in denying chicks, youll look like an arrogant asshole and this will probably backfire miserably.

good post jay

Jaybot,,, cool post. I haven't done it yet, cause I keep forgetting. But I seriuosly want to spend one day being a jerk to women. Not a true "jerk". Just the fun, cocky, judgemental, self involved fellow you described.

I say why not? If you're doing it right, it would be fun.

I also agree that we're talking about using this on confident HB8-10s..

I just think being a jerk for a day will be harder than I expect. I think the danger is coming off too strong.

Cheers.

don't worry about coming across too strong or anything just go out preferably in unwashed clothes (helps me get in a don't give a fuck state) and yeah make no effort to be high energy (that is for guys with something to prove).

Then in set be unremarkable but with a libido that would make Mr Brand blush. Make her wait for responses eye up other women.


So yar the mindset you need to succeed with this sort of game is;
I am the fucking shit
I would make this woman walk like John Wayne for a week
If she can't see this too bad I will fuck someone else tonight
I have got so much action lately regular women and sexual encounters won't cut it


and never forget arrogance is sexy and can't be over done with this type of game (see: "tell you what, how about you go round up the hottest girls in the place whilst I just chill here with my beer")

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