Hey guys. I've got a bit of one-itis for this girl I know. I AM keeping myself open to other women, but, as I said in my introduction, I live on an island off the southern tip of South Korea. I'm an English teacher who's reluctant to date Korean women which leaves me to date other teachers and that dating pool is kinda small. Hence my focus on this one chick, at least until I meet someone else who's interesting and cute.

The thing is, she's kinda going for this other dude and I already confessed that I was jealous in a facebook message. I don't know what her reaction was or how she feels about me. She does seem to smile at me a lot and we made plans once, but she canceled them. I haven't talked to her yet about rescheduling. I don't think she and this guy are a couple yet, but they've had a couple of drunken make-out sessions. It seems like, when she's sober, they're friends; when she's drunk (which she isn't often), then they're "special friends". My question is, how do I feign disinterest and get her to chase me when I've already confessed to my attraction? I've thought about just being super-romantic toward her by telling her how I feel when she's around, but I'm mindful of the Cat String theory and would be interested in giving that a try, but again, I don't know how to pretend I'm not interested in her when I've already told her I am. What do I do? Thanks.

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Omeo

To show disinterest with the intention of getting her attention is easy...

Its called jealousy.

You need another girl to use as a makeweight in the "bargaining" with her mentality. You need to show that she isnt the only girl that interests you and that if she isnt careful some other lucky girl might end up with what u have on offer.

The next step is to AMOG this other guy to death, use every bf destroyer technique before he makes it to bf stage.

If she jus hookin up with him when shes drunk thats a good sign of sorts, it means he hasnt built enough rapport or attraction for it to make an impace in her "logical" mind lol.

You need to apply the most amazing game to her when shes sober, so that residually thoughts of u enter her subconscious and become more aparant when shes drunk.

Effectively use her sober state to control her drunk state and u will cut this other guy out with ease

Hey, man. Thanks for the reply. I'm not sure who I could get to make her jealous, but I'll try to find someone. As I said, my options on this island are somewhat limited.

I already have another thread going about whether I should AMOG or BFD this prick. Again, I don't think they're a couple yet, but I'm too new to know how to destroy him. He's an energetic talker so he gets a lot of attention and I'm but a padawan, here. I don't yet have the "amazing game" I need to outshine this guy.

But that's another thread. Here, I'm trying to focus on getting her attention and getting her to chase me. I like the jealousy idea, but even if I can find someone to help me out with that, won't she just figure that I'm taken and cleave to this other douche bag even more?

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Omeo

I would say get with another girl but also use conversation to get her to disqualify herself for you. Kinda like qualifying it must be a quality which wasn't on the table before that you apparently are not attracted to. Like a quality they must have tick a box of what they definitely shouldn't have.

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I wud suggest that u make sure ur seen with a couple of different women,

that will

a) stack jealousy that u have multiple dates, make her question her choice with a guy who only seems to have her for dates etc.

b) will also make sure she doesnt get the impression u have settled with a partner, this will jus go to create some social proof for u, not only will she think ur really good with women, this other mug will b wondering what he's doing wrong.

c) I would befriend this guy and AMOG him every chance u get, turn him into ur social beta. Best way to do this is to Lock a bar, i.e. get regular status, served drinks right away, bouncers know ur name, etc... then take this dude here and have him look like a complete nobody, this will shatter his confidence.
Then invite both of them out to this joint, she will c his weakness and ur strength and shud shift attention