I got a friend and i like her, im 16, shes 16 and the game is just different, so i need some advice.

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before anyone can answer this question to any helpful extent you need to elaborate on what type of friendship you have, I have female friends who I kiss on the lips, friends I kiss on the cheek and friends that if I kissed would kick my ass lol, that is not the best example of different types of friends but I hope you get the point so try and give a brief or a detailed explanantion of how long you have known her, the type of friend she is, if she has showed any IOI or IOD's (I don't know if that is used or not it is what I call an Indicator Of Disinterest). If you post that I will do my best to give you some tips and I am sure some much more experieced guys will as well.

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She has been a friend for 2 years, it is the regular type of friend with no benefits, she is obsessd with her ex

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she is obsessd with her ex
careful.

I was in your position before and i hadn't the foggiest what i was doing. needless to say, i fucked up big time but learned mad valuable lessons from the whole crappy experience.

First off, let's set up some ground rules. You like her, you want her, she is obsessed with an ex. i cannot stress how important it is for you to be chatting up other girls while you're pursuing her. just talk to other girls. it will help you not get one-itis which is the most probably outcome of your situation (no offense, i've been in the same position you were in and went through all this shit).
Second, DO NOT let her know that you like her or want more. Not a good idea. just don't.

Since you guys are already friends and probably talking a lot and probably spending some time together and she's obsessed with an ex, I think your best approach would be to make yourself a little more scarce. Don't cut her off or anything even close to that but like i said before, talk to other girls, chill with the guys, don't make her a priority in your life...yet. You should try to make it so that she misses you and wants more of you or something to that effect. Hopefully she'll forget about the ex when she starts missing you and then you can escalate from there.