So it would be great if You could look at it and help me a bit..

- she is 21, im 25. she is hb9, has money, car, good work. Im not worse.

- we have know for 1,5 years (casually, work, later we start knowing and meeting better)

- she has a boyfriend but gives me IOI, like showing her jealous - asks who was calling, checked my messages, spends with me a lot of time because of some reasons (fe. we must buy sth, I have to show her sth on computer etc.), some "unwanted" touching, deep eye to eye contact, laugh.

- but sometimes she is cold. cancels meetings etc.

- when I stop to be so active in our relations (inviting her etc, being first who write) she start to be more active

- but she told me that she likes me as Im her only friend who dosent want to hang out with her (lol - I want it very much ), she didnt tell me this first it was a result of casual conversation about our relationship. she told im almost her friend as we dont know very well and she dont know how it will end.

- she argues with BF all the time, they are together and days after they are not.
still I can feel chemistry between us. I dont know, maybe im just a friend to her but Im sure there is some percent of sth different, I just cant explain it.

Whats the point, what to do ?

Id research

BF Destroyers
Alpha Male Behaviour
Seduction

u might actually then do something about the girl who is waiting for u to get on ur "white knight in shining armour" outfit and get to work.

Shes making the shitty bf quiet clear, expressing confused interest because of her mental loyalty to her bf.

Start sexually qualifying yourself with her at the same time as building the rapport. Ur in dance of LJBF's zone if u dont escalate and starting killing of the BF

I just dont understand her behaviour... She tells me once im her very good friend, he trust me. But for example yesterday she acts different.

We were making photos together, and there was a lot of touch, for example she put camera on my head (ye there was a lot of fun) to prevent hand shaiking and after making photo stand like this for some time in this position just holding me and pushing to me from the back, I looked above on her, she looked at me, there was a chemistry for sure. I cant belive she acts like this to a friend. She plays with her hairs etc.
I could do something but stops me this thing she told me on msn that im his very close friend but she didnt act like this.

For example its good sign for sure, if she told me she remembers exact day, hour, what we were talking about during our first meeting in job. She told then she has good memory but she seems to forget other things and remember those connected with me very well, what I told etc.

Maybe the best way will be to be close to her, meet with her, to be fun, to be alpha and things go through alone.
It works for me, when I succeeded it has been always because I left the things to their own pace.

But I look for some basic pointers how often I should look to contact her without beeing treated as needy... Thanks!

Ok when I was in full swing I dont have greed to this is how it worked.

Id have 3 girls constantly.

2 im having sex with and 1 that im persuing sex with.

Im also constantly sarging and closing randoms during this process.

Once I start having sex with the 3rd girl, I replace one of the prior "sex girls" with a new "chase girl".

Effectively I always have 2 girls I can fuck in a week and 1 girl I can be trying to fuck. Generally 3 girls over 7 days works well for me, gives me 4 days sarging or bonus sex days etc..

So once a week if u want to keep her in "rotation"

Do you think its a good sign if a girl remember each word you said to her for the last months or maybe even year ? Or she remember exact day, hour and conversation of our first meeting which was 1,5 year ago...
She said she has good memory but maybe its more IOI.. ?

Id take it as an IOI, there would be no point for a "friend" to qualify themselves in such a manner, I think shes trying to prove the point that she is in the comfort zone with u because over the last year and half she has "learnt" you.

Give it a go. wot u got to lose?

I just dont understand why sometimes she acts so close to me... She want to meet, when we meet she make different touches, deep eye contact - in other words you can feel sth happens. But sometimes she is cold, she dosent want to meet, she answers my msg with one word... Its like sinusoid if you know what I mean.

Hi,

yeah, on these occasions, you are just so scared of screwing up that your ability to do "something". "make a move" "hit on the babe" or "kino escalation" is totally screwed.

I think, that screwing up is REALLY much better than doing nothing.

Give it a go. If you screw it up, and she freezes on you, its OK, there are loads of other babes everywhere.
If she is ready to go then BINGO!!!!!
Good luck.

If what you claim is true and she gets jealous if she sees you with a girl, than why don't you use that to your advantage ? Find another girl and hang out with her. Jealousy is a very powerful tool.

I made it once so she made the same in a revenge, showing up with another boy. So I dont know if its good tactic for her...

She told me today that she is going on holiday with her sister and ask me to go with them... How to understand this ?

Also she hugs me when some1 makes us photo, show jealous when Im talking about other girls. Also she txt me a lot lately..

On the other hand she comes with her sister almost everytime we see each other, and told me once she likes me because unlike her other friends I dont want to be her BF :p