OK, so heres the problem. I have been gaming this girl for quite a while, and she was totaly under my control. I mean I was getting her to buy me gifts rather than the other way around. Keeping in mind we are still "friends", i.e we dont really date, this girl has suddnely become "alpha". She starts comanding me around, and somehow i feel i have become to needy, and she even freezes out on msn. I know for a fact before this change this girl couldnt last 2 days wihtough talking to me, yet she hasnt spoken to me for 2 days on msn - she was online at the sma time I was and yet she didnt start a convo. I remember the days when i used to get offline messages asking why I havnt been online.
It kinda started when this guy asked her out, i thought she liked htis guy yet she told me about him asking her out and told me she said no. And we also had this small arguement were she was going to sort this problem out and didnt want me there so i got angry and left. Therefore i should be the one freezing out yet she hasnt said a word to me since then. I was expectinf texts, emails, offline messages - yet nothing. What do i do? Do i start talking to her, or should i wait for her to start. I kno i will have the upperhand if i w8 - but i cant bare it. Also do you tink she mite be too scared to talk to me, as this is the 1st time i have been openly angry.

It sounds like you are getting too needy.

The last thing a girl needs is a jealous boyfriend. Trying to get together with a girl and acting just like you are "protective" and "needy" is contraproductive. She will get together with you because you provide something that she needs, then if it is good enough she will accept limiting herself to dating you and you alone. But it has to happen in that order.

She needs to feel free and get trapped by her own decision. You can not start by limiting her... Show her that you do not need her, it is fun to be around her and you always have a great time but when she is not there you wont cry.

Ezo