I need to start with a disclaimer here: I am in no way condoning smoking cigarettes in this post, but i feel the need to explain some of my observations about smoking and social interaction. I post this in Newbie Questions because i like to indulge on the possibility that this afc has a point.. lol.
I am currently attending my second year at long beach state, and let me tell you the girls here are beautiful (oh the classes are excellent too.. lol) so every opportunity i get to talk to them, i try to improve on my game. Between classes i sometimes have a smoke, and i have began to see a trend; no matter what the day or time, people are always trying to bum cigarettes off me, to which i respond in one of three ways: if its a dude or a not-so-HB, i usually will sell them one, or say im completely out of smokes; and the third response is the one i will focus on:
A HB approaches me, and asks for a smoke, game on. I usually tell them " sure, for a price" or improvise that line, to which they question the price accordingly, i say something ridiculous.. "2 dollars." Whatever their response, i usually laugh at them and offer them one, and light them up. I think the light-up is crucial, because for some reason, they already feel invested in the situation, and are rooted for conversation, and your burning cigarette effectively serves you as a false time constraint. Game on.
Smokers usually designate themselves certain places to sit as to not bother nearby nonsmokers. With this, i sometimes just scope out a hottie whose smoking, and light up next to her, begin the convo with something improvised but on the topic of "What are you smoking there?". You would be surprised at some of the crazy random smokes some people have. I've opened the 'set'. Play on their response, always playfully neg their choice of cigs; Sometimes even open up with asking what theyre smoking, and see if they'd want to trade one with me. May go as far as to bum a cig, but thats not my thing. Just another observation, if shes taking her time with the cig, i consider that an IOI.
As populous as these universities seem, its still a small world. A girl who digs you might see you smoking and ask for one just to talk to you (This has happened to me, where i saw the most beautiful blue-eyed girl lock eyes with me and smile on two different accounts while walking to classes, and finally approached me one day and asked for a smoke, yet it was only after we parted that i realized how stupid i was to not to capitalize on that..wtf!!! oh well, mistakes beget experience). The second time something like that happened, the chick actually gave ME her number.
Again, i am not telling you to go out and smoke, please don't. Nor am i telling you to limit your social life to smoking situations. Rather, i just wanted to share with you all my observations from my experiences on smoking and game. In fact, i would assume most girls find smoking unattractive, etc etc. To those who find this useful, more power to you
