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PostPosted: Fri May 08, 2009 6:38 am 
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(This blog and Chrome don't mix) I added this top part.

I'm new to this, obviously. Just went out for the first time with some of this PUA stuff in my head tonight.

I got a phone number tonight from a girl I had kissed years ago randomly at a bar. I have no interest in a relationship nor do I want to break her heart. But I want to have fun ;). Need advice. She's definitely interested....

Also, I totally bombed the 5 question game in front of this chick tonight(different girl than the one above). The first freakin' questions I asked was "Have you ever played this before?" I put my head in my hands and almost cried. She ended up walking away declaring it the worst game ever. When I left, I ended up grabbing her hand to shake mine, told her I know I fucked up the game but it was still nice to meet her. She looked in my eyes and asked me if I was leaving. I got the feeling regardless of my absolute failure, she appreciated the effort. Am I off on this?

Thanks again for any help fellas. And glad to be here. Tonight was the best night in a while and it's this community that helped.

laval


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PostPosted: Fri May 08, 2009 11:33 am 
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Im not an advocate of the 5 question game, altho my biz partner swears by it.

I use the box (cube) as once u know the items inside, u really need to know nothing else, u can miss items, skips steps and still have a really solid result at the end of it. I think "flawless", "perfect", "spot on", "amazing".... are words I usual hear after asking about my accuracy.

The question game fundamentally is a) overused alot !!! and b) u can fuck it up, and badly like u see.

You cant fuck with the box its impossible and shows alot of insight and depth to ur character.

I dont think u have screwed this chance wid the girl up, u just ruined that oppurtunity. Theres always a 2nd chance, sumtimes a 3rd maybe even a 4th.

Dont give up hope, just make sure ur consistent with the material ur gunna use, make this a learning curve and u will always take summin out of the worst sitautions to make them better


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PostPosted: Fri May 08, 2009 3:40 pm 
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I like the cube as well.

most of the girls are like "omg, how did you do that? teach me!" but then again, that's also because i don't explain the results by telling them what each thing represents, i just give the results lol

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PostPosted: Fri May 08, 2009 3:54 pm 
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Girls can still appreciate the effort and yet not be attracted.

The main thing is that you shouldn't beat yourself up so much. Things like this happen in the beginning and you have to let it roll right off your back. There's no reason to bury your head in your hands and almost cry over a girl you just met. If you watch naturals, they fuck up a lot. They just don't let it affect them. They laugh about it because it's funny. Not some big deal that affects their self confidence.

Get your mind right man.


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PostPosted: Fri May 08, 2009 4:14 pm 
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Attractive lifestyle over canned material, each and every time.

Ive tried to build as much natural charm and seduction framework into my day to day life as possible, so when I move into a sarge I jus gotta boost my current frame not fit a new one kinda thing.


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PostPosted: Fri May 08, 2009 5:25 pm 
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Thanks for the positive replies guys. Do you mind re-reading my post? As it says, Chrome and this blog don't get along and my first question ended up being left out. (Chrome and a lot of sites don't get along actually). I added the top paragraph regarding making sure me and the girl have an understanding.

I don't know the cube. Can I find it in here or out on the net? I will say though, once I went back over the night this morning, I realized what "chick crack" means. Once I said "play a game" and started into it, I had her undivided attention. Honestly, it made me nervous and everything sped up and hence I screwed up the game. I'll just have to keep trying until I get more comfortable.

Again, thanks for the help.

laval


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