I'll try and give an outline of my situation.

I have known a girl for quite some time now and we have a bit of history behind us, but that wasn't really anything serious. A week ago I went out with her for a drink because we didn't see each other for quite some time. I was really glad that I finally had a chance of improving my game a bit more after a long time.

Throughout the "date", I picked up signs of attraction (playing with hair, leaning forward, liveliness in her eyes,..). Halfway through the convo (we were talking about her current relationship, she wasn't so happy with it) she says that she would like to have a guy for casual sex (not that blatant, but the meaning is the same) without any emotional strings attached.

A little light went off in my brain, although I tried to play it cool (still don't know if it was really necessary) and smiled and said something along the lines of: Yea, I know what you mean.

A few seconds later I realised what I said and had to return to the topic of casual sex again. me: Yeah, I'm looking for somebody like that too.

Later on a bunch of shit happened that doesn't have much to do with this, but we still maintained that attractive SPAM.


So this is the actual question: Which would be the best way of actually saying it again? Straight forward, tricky, glazed???

If someone could give me some pointers, it would be more than welcome and I would gladly build from there.

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Shazzam!

Call her one night and ask her "what are you doing? Wanna come over?"

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Yeah, next time you guys go out, just invite her back to your place for a movie or something. Kino escalate, and you should be golden

i would say watch. she may not come back for a movie it may look liek your trying to date her.

find out if she wants a relationship or not. if shes defo down for the casual sex

if she says things like "ive had enought of realtionships boy friends sucks i just want NSA fun"

then yeah i woudl be upfront.

Well "come round to my house and we can see if i can make you cum all night"

im forard quite a lot.

if she play it off of. oh i cant and stuff i normally say. "but your tempeted. Temptations a fucker. i hate it."

honestly ive never had a girl nock me back for a one night stand or a casual sex session well once and she had a BF and doesnt "cheat anymore" still let me finger her tho, women eh.

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The Rossatron
Edinburgh
Scotland
PFL

Yeah I totally agree with Novell and weeneedhelp.

Most woman want casual sex with people they already are comfortable with and that they think will handle the situation.

So i may be blunt when i say this, but get your head out of your ass...twice she mentions it to you, so who do you think she would want nothing better then to have a casual relationship with? Once might be a conversation topic, but women dont bring it up twice.

Call her up, invite her to hang out again, explain how your free due to a date flaking due to work. explain how its the reason why you dont see yourself wanting any type of serious relationship right now.

invite her to meet you at your place, then head out from their, pull a david d when she comes, tell her you need to grab something and invite her in for a second and leave the door open, grab something and leave. Get her used to being in your place if she is not already. Have a good night, and after say your restless, invite her back to your place to hang out some more. Work your magic and keep is casual.

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