Guys,

I've been gaming for 7 months now, and because I approach the exactly same girl for 6 months, I've lost everything. I lost the skill to hold a decent conversation with strangers and new girls. I need to build it all over again and I promise I will try. But I need a set of guidelines what to say and what not to say.

1) How do you guys define an interesting conversation? Honestly, from the start of the game, I never really know what is interesting to people. Can you give me the example of topics, and how it should be going??
2) A natural friend of mine told me about how to not be LJBF-ed "Don't ask friend questions and they will not put you on the friend zone". I'm still getting more information out from him, but if I can get more help in this forum, it'd really great.

Any opinion,please share it here

Best pal,
Steven

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Your friend has hit something on the head.

Mystery once said that the Pick Up Artist must be the exception to the rule, and in the last few years of playing this game I have found it a completely accurate statement. By asking the same boring questions (such as "Come here often?" "Where are cool places to go?" etc) as every other guy who approaches her, she will automatically throw you into the mental pile of crap AFC guys who ask her out. Instead, try a different approach...

"Hey, do you think magic spells work?"
"Hey, I need your opinion on something. Does this hat make me look cool or awesome?"

By asking different questions, you will be able to create interesting conversations. Topics that revolve around New Ageism, magic, relationships, etc tend to be 'chick crack' for women. I recommend you read The Game by Neil Strauss and Double Your Dating by David DeAngelo.


-Memento

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Diploma in Clinical Hypnosis -- GHR & NHS

1) IMO, there is no one way that a conversation needs to be had. You can ask those questions that Memento has talked about if you are really interested in them. If you aren't really interested in what she has to say about it, then don't ask it. Also, give her a why and what. (If you really want to know) Do you believe in magic spells? The reason that I am asking is because I had a friend that....blah,blah,blah. It is much easier to talk about things that you know about or are genuinely interested in than something that somebody else has came up with, though.

2) The only way you will be put in the friend zone is if you let it happen. What I mean is this. If you don't escalate, you will be put in the friend zone. If you escalate and get denied and still hang around her, you will be in the friend zone. Basically, escalate and you will know whether or not she wants you as a friend or more.

Stay off the topics of rape, violence, gross stuff and abuse...

Otherwise, if you are enthusiastic about it you can talk about anything you like. Some of my best sets have listened to me talking about pick-up. I get really enthusiastic about it since I love it...

Ezo

best tip I can offer is be passionate. u could talk about almost anything if you are passionate.

another thing to do to help your game all the time, is read and learn about everything. stay up to date on current events, learn random facts about a lot of stuff. if u read something funny, lock it away in your memory.

the more you know, the more you can talk. its pretty simple really