Hey, im new here, but I would love some advice on a bit of texting that has been going on between me and a HB I recently # closed.

Right to cut a long story short, we met like a week ago, spent about 40-50 mins together, had alot of fun, bit of kino too. (made a newbie mistake and forgot to drop any SOI's) but number closed easily and basically ended the day well.

anyway we've been texting back and forth here and there over the past few days,
Until I went dead on her for a bit.


the job/work thing is an inside joke between us both, its not real. (we've only met once)

Then I texted her saying this:

"Hey, hows the 24/7 job going for you? been revising all day, i hope you are too.. or not? lol , anyway txt me back a joke and I might call you sometime next week, going back to revise, cya"

then I recieve a text back a few hours later

"U r a joke i dnt need 2 tel u one lol. ive just finished my history cw. how u doin? please dnt call me its enough that i see u @ work everyday lol"



right so my question is, what exactly is she doing in this response? is it all out disinterest? flirting? I have no idea, we both shot alot of sarcasm at each other when we met for a laugh, and we both take it well and laugh, but im not sure how to understand her response.

Any help would be much appreciated.

She likes you but your last text was a bit of a joke. If you like her, stop being so aloof. . . You might call her sometime next week? I know what you're trying to do here. You're trying to not seem so needy and yes, you're accomplishing this. However, you are also telling her that you have no balls.

If you want to score, sooner or later, you've got to take a SHOT . . . but why wait until "later"? What do you wish to accomplish by waiting around? Begin gaming this girl now. There are many ways to do this but boring office talk is not one of them.

How about something like this instead?

You: _____ in my office has a blouse just like yours.

Her: Really? She has good taste.

You: Yes, her breasts aren't as big as yours but I'll take what I can for eye candy now.

Her: OMG! You're a pig!

You: Hey, you're still my favorite.

Her: You wish!

You: Hey, I'm a man. I like to stare at beautiful tits. What can I say?

Her: OMG! LOL!

You: How about beer after work?

Her: No way! you're going to stare at my tits the whole time! LOL.

You: No . . .not the whole time. I think you have a cute ass as well.

Her: Is that all I am? Tits and ass? LOL . . .

You: Of course not. You're an intelligent girl . . .who happens to have beautiful ass-ets. Oh, and your lips are sexy too. I nearly forgot about that. LOL

Just lay it on . . . There is absolutely no confusion when you take this route. Just keep bouncing the ball back to her court as long as she's playing along. And every time, just escalate it and be a bit more daring. If the actual date doesn't work out, it's just "flirting" and there's nothing wrong with that. But really . . . if she's playing along, it's really just an invitation. Laughing about "pretend office work" and laughing due to sexual tension are two very different things.

is your example of example of texting not a bit full on? I'll try it though, just to see what happens hehe, thanks for the reply.

Not full on but an escalation to it. You can see that the first text is pretty tame and I just flow with it as long as she hits the ball back to my court.

ALL WOMEN LOVE TO TALK ABOUT SEX AND THEIR SEXUAL ATTRACTIVENESS.

You can push the limits and if you get back what seems to be a "firm dislike" to what's going on, DROP the topic all together with something like: "Wow, ever try the sandwiches at Sally's Deli? Damn good."

In a real life conversation, 9 out of 10 times, she'll try to lure you back to the "sexual topic" with something like, "What, you mean the waitress there has big tits too? LOL . . " In a text game, less likely. But if she doesn't . . . you take the lead and begin with the "tame set up" again. Do her this favor.